To my son, whom I love very much. As I cant say this to you directly, I am saying it online. I have always tried to do what is right. Whenever you needed help I did what I could. When you needed help with your finances, I took out a second bond. you succeeded and I am proud of you. When we were defrauded out of our business by "family", and had to give up our home and had no income. Where were you? We have lived like street people for 6 months, in a little room, sometimes with no money for food or medication. Where were you. You said you loved me and needed my support as a mother. Well son I love you and for once we needed your support as a son. Where were you.? I still love you and always will, but I will never forget you lack of support for the last six months. have a happy life and I hope you stay successful. Am I bitter, oh yes I am bitter. You didnt care. But I will never stop loving you.
2006-11-01 21:02:12 · 10 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
:( such a sad letter, why not share it with him instead of witholding your feelings, being a son of a family that's always been there for me I'd certainly like to know how they felt about me.
2006-11-01 21:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by digdoggy299 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really all right now? I feel really sorry for you, because I sometimes imagine things like this happen to my beloved mom and I read so many stories apt to yours, so I can tell that it's tragic. I offend my mom so many times, but still she loves me so much, I know that. so now, when she's not here beside me (I'm studying abroad in another country which is very far from my home) I feel so guilty and I miss her so much.
I'm 14, I don't know you, but I beg you to not give up loving your son, hope someday he will remember you, because I can't imagine how I can bear it if my mum doesn't love me again.
As for it, why don't you try to tell your son about your condition? if he doesn't want to help or he doesn't care, it's his own business, you've done your best as a mother, there's still God who take care of you. you can ask one of your relative to take care of you, why not? God bless you always...
2006-11-01 21:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by wonder why 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask for help from your son or did you just expect it? You can still love your child even if you feel this way but remember this if you hold a grudge over money than you will grow to hate him. In time he will hopefully feel bad for not being there for you like you wanted him to be but you also need to forgive him for not being there.
Find a way to see the blessings in this experience. They are there, look for them.
2006-11-01 22:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Carol N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your son is a little self centered. Don't let him guilt you back into a relationship. How could he??? Good luck
2006-11-01 22:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel deeply sorry for you and this is not a joke. I can cry if this happens to me. Just a suggestion- next time, maybe write the name of your son that way your son can realize it's for him.
2006-11-01 21:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by saggiesoul 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have always thought "Pure Love = Mother's Love"
2006-11-01 21:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ormoz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be bitter and say you didn't care! Then going to throw u love someone????? God don't bless like that! That is why you are in the mess you in! I don't care i am telling you like it is! You have to forgive your son then yourself and then confess to God he can't move in places like that no!
2006-11-01 21:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know that it's too late for this, but for anyone else out there reading this post in your situation:
You brought this on yourself. By continually coming to your son's aid, you did not help him, you hindered his ability to grow up and mature on his own. Kids need their parent's support, but not when it goes unappreciated. For those out there with kids on the verge of financial problems, etc., please as hard as it may be do not help them out--it will only make things worse.
2006-11-01 21:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by skydivemommy 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Very nice be nicer in person.
2006-11-02 00:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by nfld_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotional
2006-11-02 01:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Magnetic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋