There is this girl I really like and care for. I have been trying to tell her my real feeling, but I found no opportunity in which there were only both of us together to tell my feeling. I am clueless now.
Clueless
I do not know what should I do?
Should I just text her?
What should I do?
Thanks
2006-11-01 20:27:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if there's a will, there's a way...i think what you need is the courage to tell her what you feel....you can do it....send her a love letter....then confirm it by telling her face to face....hope this helps!!!! goodluck...
2006-11-01 20:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by chona a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard admitting your true feelings, and the worst of it is finding the opportunity to do it, and taking the opportunity! I'm not sure that there is a ready-made answer I can give you... it kind of has to be something decided on an individual basis...
You say you found no opportunity where it was both of you together... meaning you didn't have a chance to talk to her alone, not you were talking to her but didn't see anything that looked like a suitable opportunity to tell her, right? Well... maybe make that opportunity... ask her if you can talk to her alone for a minute. Don't interrupt her or be a pest if she looks busy, but if she feels the same way, it will make her day when you tell her!
Should you just text her?... hmm... well... i suppose you could... though as a girl myself, i would think something that shows a bit more thought than a text message would be more effective... maybe an e-card, or a handwritten note? I know I'd like one of those better than a text message. In person would be better, probably... but my boyfriend, who I love, admitted his feelings for the first time while we were talking online just because that's when the perfect opportunity came up. (He had set up a perfect opportunity in person, but I kinda accidentally messed it up... oops... but it turned out well after all!) If you DO tell her by something impersonal, make sure you tell her in person too, as soon as possible!
2006-11-02 04:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by maethoriel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to say hey lets run to the party store for something you might need. We the two of you are alone in the car tell her. You need to come out and tell her.
2006-11-02 09:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by angel_of_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being chicken-s h i t and just tell her. Don't tell me you never have enough time alone with her....That's just a cop-out. Either that or you can stay a loser
2006-11-02 04:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her out to do something with you and see what she says. like a movie, coffee, dinner, etc. don't tell her right off the bat if you don't know how she feels for you.
2006-11-02 04:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create a situation where the two of you are alone, and then tell her.
2006-11-02 04:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't text her. tell her in person, ask her to go somewhere with you alone, then you can talk to her, don't make it all impersonal because then you cannot see her physical reaction, and that is very important
2006-11-02 04:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by j. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in person. if you are in a group all the time just pull her aside for a minute and tell her. i you dont tell her in person she might not think your serious about it.
2006-11-02 04:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you know her number, call n date her out, then you'll have all the time to tell her so. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-02 04:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, definately don't text her.
call her, or yeah, just take her out and tell her.
2006-11-02 04:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋