I have been with my boyfriend who is 19 nearly 6 months. I knew that his second cousin who is 16 fancied him when we got together. He has always said that hes never fancied her and he wouldnt go there because they are cousins. I found out last night that he met up with her. Then this morning she text him. My boyfriends sister old me that he contacted the cousin first. Should i be worried? Or even question him about it?
2006-11-01 20:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there real cause for concern, is he the type of person to cheat on you, with his cousin? Only you know him. If he is not trustworthy then that is a whole other problem that requires your immediate attention and action.
2006-11-01 20:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by kittykatty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you be worried??? Hell girl, I'M worried for you! Ditch him if he's thinking of his cousin! Hello, that's his blood relative....that's incest. Get away from that as soon as possible...it's a very unhealthy situation to be in. You deserve better and can get better. Leave Cousin-Boy-Toy.
2006-11-01 20:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by safireblu64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to stripped him out of it, if it is you or his cousin. Mind you but many cousins married each other, im not making you worry just stating a fact. Good luck1
2006-11-01 20:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by angel blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship. If you question him, he will just say that she is "family". Trust me I have been there. My 39 yr old hubby of 16 yrs had a sexual relationship with his 24 yr old 2nd cousin. Run girl Run!!!
2006-11-01 20:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by lostandfound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, The whole cousin thing leads me to beleive their family is like, not normal. But umm, ask him about it. See if anything else happens kind of investigate. BUT IF HE DID do anything with her LEAVE HIS SICK ASHHH.
2006-11-01 20:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Deziix33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is what you call gut-feel with women. if your gut is telling you that there is something to worry about then act on it. you can ask him in a non-confrontational manner. i believe you have to verbalize what you feel to him. in a relationship, it is healthy if you talk about what you feel, whether it is good or bad.
2006-11-01 20:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by frandonn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just gross. Move on. There's gotta be better men in Europe.
2006-11-01 20:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Violante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How I can know, is just one day and you asking what is going to be in the future. Ask him if you're afraid.
2006-11-01 20:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right.
2006-11-01 20:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be worried, be very worried.
2006-11-01 20:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋