i met him coz we have mutual friends,we exchanged numbers then started calling me and we talked about so many topics and we both enjoyed it.
he never said anything clear about liking me or stuff like that,but so many signals were flying in the air.
anyway i was happy and didn't play the "i'll wait and see game":this meaning that i called him too and made some suggestion to go out.BUT yesterday he told me that he wants to get to know me as a PERSON coz i'm so interesting and maybe something special could happen in the future &he doesn't want to lead to wrong conclusions.
what should i read from it:that he really means it,or that i moved too fast for him so he backed off?
2006-11-01 19:54:11 · 12 answers · asked by crazypumpkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i was in that situation i would say that he's only just met you and he wants to get to know you, your life and your interests first before anything else happens. He finds you a very interesting person and i am sure that he really likes you and would also like to go out with you but he just wants to see who you are first before he makes any moves. I would jump in there and take the chance to really get to know him, im sure with your interesting personally which he has noticed as well that before long he will be falling for you as it seems he may already have started to. Just take it slow for now and dont rush, let it all happen in its own time. I hope you get the man you want in the end and good luck. Take care
2006-11-01 20:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember one thing in relationships....human beings act differently at different times for the same situation. So dont forecast anything, dont assume anything, and definitely dont generalise. Even when we seem to clearly spell out our mind, it can mean different things to different people. Now that both of u are young and exploring each other, your expressions will be difficult to understand for each other. Therfore, act with trust and at the same time with caution. Share ur thoughts sincerely without giving away any intimate details at this stage. As you know each other more, the depth of this sharing can increase.. In fact, the highest form of relationship is that one merges into another. This takes a long time. That is why the institution of marriage was made... for people to live together long enough to reach that union over a period of time. The union of bodies between married couple is just the beginning of this union. (If u want to know how is it true, i can answer in a little detail later)Unfortunately, the marriage has now become a licence for lust and a means of social status rathar than union of two souls and now union of bodies is wrongly considered as the ultimate union.
Hope this gives u a little food for thought on ur next move
2006-11-02 04:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being a gentleman who sees the possibility of you two going about the courtship in the proper manner that will lead into marriage that will last a life time. GO slow with him and the friendship will blossom into love.
2006-11-02 04:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things. Don't panic, don't make demands, and don't start acting differently. Good news is he may be serious about you and doesn't want to mess things up, bad news he may stalling you because he's juggling more than one woman at the moment and he's trying to decide who to devote his time to. THIS IS JUST SPECULATION. Remember, don't panic. Be yourself and let it sort itself out.
2006-11-02 04:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male: I don't think he's interested in you, the "STRANGE" light is blinking on the control panel. Take it from a male, if he was interested in you, he would have been "all over" the opportunity to go out with you. I smell a "Momma's Boy" !
2006-11-02 04:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is into you, and you should get together with him for "getting to know you as a person" otherwise known as a date. You might have to push it a little to get it more intimate in a timely fashion, but nature should also help him along if he is a little hesitant
2006-11-02 04:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye so. Go with your gut. If you think he is honestly just wanting to take things slow, then that is a good thing, and go with that flow (don't pressure him). But if you think he just doesn't like you or is playing with you, leave him in the dust.
2006-11-02 03:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jake S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are still a few gentlemen around. Maybe you could invite him along when your out with some friends.
2006-11-02 04:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Popeye! Just go with the flow! The man wants to know you as a person....why?...cause he's interested.....thats where it all starts...just his way to let you know he wants more quality time!
2006-11-02 04:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Ahead ! he seems to have interest in you, but don't openly propose to him, keep playing with your eyes and actions a bit........and try to read him what he is feeling.
i m sure that will work...
2006-11-02 04:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rahman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋