wedding vows plz help!!?

Question

my partner and i want non traditional vows want them to included me supporting his football team(now and then) him to do the washing up 2 give me brekfast in bed at least once a month, to love or sumthing to honour and obey at least once a yr or sumthing like that plz someone gives us ideas n this is us other peoples opions if negative not needed thanks!!

Answer 1

my husband and I wrote our own vows. We didn't share them with each other until the day of. We mixed serious thoughts with comedy. People cried and chuckled. Go straight from your hear and use those special funny memories.

some examples "I promise to always love your morning breath.....or I look forward to sharing my future with you as a confidant, the father of my children and as a lazy football beer drinking husband"

have fun and be sincere

Answer 2

Hi - if you Google / Yahoo writing your own vows, there are a number of sites that give examples of personalised ones, you can use these as a basis and go from there. I think its a lovely idea and itll certainly add that extra something to an already special day. I think you should still have certain 'traditional' elements tho, such as the fact your ring is a symbol of your love etc. Our registrar said love really lovely things about us being soulmates, best friends etc, so that was great. Oh, one last thing - you can get a copy of the wedding vows used by your registrar (just call and ask to see which ones are used), its kinda mix and match different elements? This will also give you some ideas. Hope this helps! xx

Answer 3

Try having a serious part to your vows and then adding a touch of, what other people will see, as humour at the end.

These are good ideas you are having, as it makes for a bit of give and take. Why not have like The Ten Commandmants (5 each) where you get to say "And do you promise to: give me a lie in and bring me breakfast and a foot massage at least once a month" etc.

Answer 4

What a load of crap. It's hard enough vowing to spend the rest of your're lives together. Vows like that should be made in private. weddings are not about organising how you live - Who picks the phones, who does the school run or mows the lawn. Just get married and take life easy, that way you will both be happy.

Answer 5

1) We will stand by all the vows we make
2) We are declared partners for for life from today or (this minute)
3) We will share all our responsibilities like cooking, Making bed, driving, cleaning,
4) We will fight once in a week
5) We will compulsorily make love on the day we fight. & Other days too (say the last three words slowly and give a smile to each other
6) We will support each other when ever our purse is full
7) We will never see a porn movie when we are together
8) We will always greet each other by hugging kissing and telling each other "I love you"
There are many more but this should give you more ideas

Answer 6

so which you're asserting the only reason you will desire to vow continually to somebody you adore is with the help of god? what type of love is that? Sounds distant and chilly to me. i'd particularly hear marriage vows spoken for no different reason than from the midsection as a factor of non-public integrity. precise and incorrect is desperate via the subculture we live in and via our mothers and fathers. There are tribal cultures who have self belief in very distinctive marriage practices than the Western worldwide does. there's a tribe (Amazon???) who marries somebody different than their husband or spouse for some days a year. Any infants produced are seen the husband's new child no longer the organic and organic father. they are noticeably insulted if a customer does not participate if asked to. To them refusal is the sin. EDIT notice: Even greater animals sense love, hate, worry, exhilaration. The why does not remember. It exists. we are hardwired for it.

Answer 7

Wedding vows come from the heart. Think about one another, from the moment u guys met through planning ur wedding. After include ur feelings about each other, then u shall include the football, the breakfast in bed, and so on. It will all come together, you'll see. Good luck!

Answer 8

Please tell me you are not seriously thinking of making vows like this to each other, for goodness sake you sound like a pair of kids in the school yard and not a couple supposedly in love and wanting to spend the rest of your life together, I don't mean to be mean but all those things come with love and understanding and not as part of vows at your wedding.

Answer 9

I ______ Take thee_____ to be my husband for the rest of your life. I will be there for you throug rain, sleet, and snow. I will cherish all of your memories from the first tackle to the 7 touch down. I will promise to watch every game you are in no matter how tired or anry I am at you. I will always be your #1 fan.

I_____take thee_____to be my wife for the rest of my life. I will awaken you with breakfast in bed. I will message each of your toes when ever they hurt. I will cook, clean and even do the laudry on some occasions. I will tell you your cooking is great even though it turns me green in the face. I will tolerate your parents comming over on holidays. And I will actually listen to you when you nag. If you ever ask me "honey do I look fat in this" I will always tell you no darling you are just fine. I will make you my # one fan.

Answer 10

I think that is something that you and him need to discuss. I know, men don't particularly care about "Weddings". But, hey, if you are going to be together the rest of your life, the Wedding should be something that you decide on together. You need to plan ahead. Let him decide what he wants to say and let him know what you want to say and I'm sure you guys can come up with a mutual agreement.