I'm currently in a long distance relationship right now and i want to know how to keep her interested in me. i feel like as if im boring her. so what do i do? I want some SERIOUS answers no bull **** ie. phone sex or stuff like that.
2006-11-01 19:40:23 · 8 answers · asked by rk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By you just calling her and telling her that you miss her and care about her should help a little. If you have to have phone sex to prevent from boring her, then go ahead, but that is really hard to do without causing major frustration to you both. There is nothing like actually being together in real life. I suppose using words to make her feel sexy and desired will remind her that you really are trying your best for being so far away from her. Hope it works.
2006-11-01 21:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anyone WANTS to have a long distance relationship. Life happens and gets in the way, you just have to work around it. If someone wants to be with their long distance BF or GF enough/or they love them enough, they will move to where the other person is and quit the long distance thing. Those people who have relationships over the internet or out of state "just because" are probably wasting their time. Long distance relationships wont last if there isnt commitment.
2016-05-23 13:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm currently in a long distance relationship too. What I like best is little surprises. Send her a "thinking of you" or "i love you" card for no reason whatsoever. (Who doesn't like getting mail?) Leave a random voicemail message telling her why you miss her and why you still like/love her even though you don't see her often. (I had a voicemail message that I saved and kept listening to until my stupid cell phone deleted it.) Write a long e-mail. (Everyone likes being told why they're loved!) Send her some sort of small gift in the mail (nothing expensive- it truly is the thought that counts! someting meaningful, someting that has a special significance to the two of you). You wouldn't believe how much the littlest things can mean to us girls! I'm being a little presumptuous speaking for all girls, but we appreciate someone who's thoughtful, and who just surprises us occasionally. Often little things mean at LEAST as much as the big things ;-).
2006-11-01 19:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends on the chemistry yall have between eachother and have u asked her or hinted at her to find out how serious she is about u. ive been in a longh distance relationship and i sometimes get that way too. it also has to do with the fact that yall are so far from eachother. why dont u ask her if yourboring or what can make yalls relationship work out better if your having doubts. just talk with her. thats how ive managed my relationship for so long.
2006-11-01 20:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep yourself interesting to her, then make
yourself interesting. Long distance relationships are hard if you hardly ever see each other. I hope yours turns out better than mine did.
2006-11-01 19:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things you can do to keep your relationship exciting. http://www.missyourmate.com/tips.html has some good ideas!
2006-11-04 13:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jow S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a cam each so you can see each other --- not for sex --- can watch them catch their expressions see them laugh
then you talk about anything and everything --- its more intimate and interesting
2006-11-01 19:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making something to make her surprise..
or maybe prove that how much u love her GO TO FIND HER..
2006-11-01 19:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by tankc89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋