My ex broken up with me 1 mth ago and now looks like he's thinking of getting together again. I was thrilled n happy at 1st but then i was held back alittle coz i wondered if i still haf feelings 4 him. It makes me wonder if he's standing rite in front of me now, will i still hav the urge to hug or kiss him like the past? I feel rather numb n confused now. I tried to recall all our past fond memories we had to see if i do miss that past i had with him, but then i still feel that confusion. On the contradictory, i still quite look forward to the rekindle of our love. If that's so, izzit because i can't get use to that loneliness or boredom n juz trying 2 look 4 a companion??
2006-11-01 19:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by ^_^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"he's thinking of getting together again."
Yeah, right. I'll tell you what he's thinking. He's thinking of getting his body together with your body for anywhere from ten seconds to ninety minutes, then he's going to dump you again.
None of those break-up / make-up, break-up / make-up relationships work. What happens is that one of the individuals keeps the whole sick thing going while he or she is looking for something better.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-01 20:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my opinion is everybody disserves a 2nd chance, but not to your heart! My soon to be ex- and I were married for 13+ years and then one day he moved out ( he did this alot) so it was no surprise, but then he came over one day and I asked him are you wanting some and he told me he has slept with my best friend and that it was over, my heart broke that day and I feel that I'm better than him,... now 3 years later I live a terrific man,live in a very nice home in a great part of town and getting married next month and I will never let this man in my life ever again, you have to question him why did you break my heart and now feel that it's o.k. to come back draging your tail asking me if I feel like possibly getting hurt again, what's different now?
2006-11-01 19:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by wetherbeemary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They call it BREAKUP because it's broken. It's no use pondering what you would do if he was standing in front of you.
Never allow someone to make you their option when they are YOUR priority. It's time to move on and find someone who can appreciate you for yourself. It hurts at first, but you will get over it. Take some time out for yourself and quit worrying about boys and dating for awhile. It's quite liberating!
2006-11-01 19:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Linzy Rae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you are lonley.. its hard when someone breaks your heart to want to get right back into a relationship with them again.. youll be thinking what if he does it again.. I think that you are just putting up a wall so that he doesnt hurt you again... just take things slow and see what happens .. whatever is ment to be will.. you might figure out that you dont want to be with him anymore..
2006-11-01 19:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your past now. I would advice you not to get back with him as it is never going to be as fine as it was before. It is likely that you won't feel the same love and affection as you did in the past. stay away.
2006-11-01 19:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by mind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. he just thougth the grass was greener on the other side but apparently it wasn't. if you take him back he will think that you are weak and that he can continue to break up and come back whenever he wants. you don't need to be with him just to prevent your loneliness. it won't work. let the loser go.
2006-11-01 19:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u still love him as it is no very easy to forget someone u love.u both can join together again.take my advice.its so cool!
2006-11-01 19:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋