I like this girl and I at least know that she is attracted to me. The problem is her best friend is all crazy for me. I even told her friend that I prefer her over her friend but her friend is still all sprung on me. I don't want to come between two friends. It would probably suck for her friend to see me with her. What's the best outcome for the situation. I'll be 30 this year and I dont want to let this one pass.
2006-11-01 18:50:05 · 6 answers · asked by Army 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, if the girl can't take an outright rejection, she has a problem. Don't worry about her. Ask the one you like out and forget about the other one. Things will work out for the best.
2006-11-01 18:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well A: you sound pretty darn decent to acknowledge that they are best friends, and to not want to come between them, and B: I say just ask her out. Her friend might be sprung on you, but she's not in love with you. It might suck for a little while, but eventually she will get over it. AND, if you being with the chick that you want, divides the friendship between the two, then their friendship wasn't that strong to begin with. Because no matter what, when girls are true friends, and have formed that lasting bond, no guy will come between the friendship, or ruin it. True there is a bond of sisterhood that you absolutely do not cross, but that only applies if one chick STEALS the other chick's guy or dates the other's ex. (on rare occasions this is authorized) But you don't even like the other friend, which means she doesn't even have a chance. So, just bite the bullet and go for it! Why pass up an opportunity that could be golden? Best of luck to you!
2006-11-01 19:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by safireblu64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have admirers around U. Worst, all this admirers are your gf's friends. Do U think it is wise for U to switch to a new girl ( Admirer ) whom your gf knows them ? What will U think their impression towards U? Do not get yourself distracted with all the admirers around U. They may trying to test your faithfulness towards your gf. So, stick to one, and give her the trust that U love nobody else except her.
2006-11-01 19:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by atbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow man, some guys here are complaining they can 't get any action
and you 're because you can get 2!
2006-11-01 18:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Deprie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3some
2006-11-01 18:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her out then
2006-11-01 18:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋