Just pretend to love her,tell her that you don't love or may be you will love her one day just relax.
2006-11-01 18:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by THULANI C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, my story is like that too. im so crazy loving my bf before and he's not. but then we remained friend and he knows how i feel.
then later on, he asked me, he proposed. i ask him y, then he told me he loves me.
i hope you can love her too. uhmm my suggestion, just be friends with her.
2006-11-01 18:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by jhen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question. During my high school years, I was cheated on and let down several times. however, ten years later, I hear about how, "If I knew then what I know now". But sorry about their luck. Take a good look at what you might be missing if you let her go. Obviously you care about her or you wouldn't be asking. If you choose to not be with her at this point in time, just be as nice, sensitive, and private as you can be. Don't involve others and remain to be friends, cause she will still love you no matter what.
2006-11-02 02:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship, then the best thing to remain calm, but communicate to her that you are not on the same level (in terms of love) that she's on, but that you do care for her and that in time those feelings can change to something greater. If you are not in a relationship but the girl likes you you approach it the same way, only you let her know immediately that you dont feel the same way. You do that in a respectful way so as not to be rude. In the end she will have to accept that you dont see her in the same light. Dont beat around the bush in telling her though, that is where the trouble starts.
2006-11-02 02:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly , if I were that person, I would know the truth already It is quite impossible to fake the "look"of devotion and caring that love brings on
Some girls may simply just want to keep on deluding themselves, pretending it is just taking you time to come around and love them back.
What you do is up to you. She may be so smitten with you that just being around you is good enough for her.
If you really want out of the one sided relationship, leave. Life is too short.
2006-11-02 02:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was one of those girls. We did losts of crazy things. What we want is that you should somehow treat us not like a pig. You have no need to pretend but just treat us as a human being. If you don't love her, soon after, she will realize it and give up.
2006-11-02 02:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell her you do not feel the same way, and let her move on. Lying is deceitful and not very kind, and she will find out its a lie making matters much much worse. She will get over you.....give her the space to do it. Good luck.
2006-11-02 02:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont love her bec she loves u and u r no longer challenged.. you will never love her and how much u try, it just wont happen.
best thing to do is tell her the truth and stay away from her so she stop day dreaming... if it hurts her, well, she is a big girl alright....
2006-11-02 02:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nooo dont pretent then u gonna break her heart and make her paranoidish that noone like her, i have a yahoo friend with that problem so dont just lay it down gently and not tooo heartless
2006-11-02 03:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by nathan sharp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am, i think ,in the same situation as yours but all i do is just let it be as if she were joking and that i try my best to make her not like me....
2006-11-02 03:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Wild Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Let her decide if she wants it to end or not.
2006-11-02 02:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by dtahackett 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋