why is so difficult to take a decision?

Question

i've broke up with my boyfriend,but i still love him...he told me that he love's me too,but when we were separated he begin to talk and be with his exgirlfriend...now they broke up again...i think he still care's about her even he lie to me...i feel this...but he said that he love's me....and he want to forget the pass...and to begin a futur with me...but now it's seem's to be very complicated to him to take a decision...i love him but i don't know what to do or say...it would be possible to forget the exgirlfriend with me again?to accept him or no....i want to be helped in this problem cause i don't want to be hurt again

Answer 1

it is difficult because you are making it difficult. you are still obsessing over the idea if you should trust him or not and you should not! he can do the talk but can he walk the walk? i dont think so from what it seems! he seems as though he is playing both you and his ex and he is telling you that he wants to be with you just because that is what you want to hear! if he actually would love you he would act on other better terms and not like a jerk who wants his cake and to eat it too! i have broken up with my bf and so has he with me but none of us have talked with our ex's or tried to play the other person since we are both with our ex's-we are 22 and almost 24! i would not accept this guy's behavior no matter how much you love him since he obviously is not mature enough for you, your needs, his actions or his behavior! he thinks that playing with people's minds is fun, therefore he does not know and i think that this guy at some point will surprise you by cheating on you! do not accept him and all his drama into your life but rather focus on what you have and how young you are as well as that time will not not come a second time around as well as how you should take care of yourself first and be in a healthy relationship! this relationship from what i can make out of it is not the best relationship so you might want to rethink it and make yourself happy with someone who can take care of you and knows what he wants out of life as well as treating you better than this! if you go back with this guy you are headed for splitsville another couple of times as well as more tension, lack of trust and frustration building! i have given you the info from personal experiences and i hope that at least you consider some of them!

Answer 2

He's already made his decision. He wants both of you. He wants to string you both along and get as much love, affection and sex as possible, all the while making you and the other girl feel like crap.

Move on. Find someone better.

Answer 3

If you extend your warm heart first you will be the loser again!
Wait till he turns up call you "Honey how are you?"

Answer 4

let him go