i know this girl, i talk to her during class and passing period everyday,and we are sort of friends. how should i ask her to be my girlfriend??? please try to use dialog.
2006-11-01 17:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just start by asking her casually to the movies. then when you guys are together at the movies ask her to be your girlfriend. good luck ! =]
2006-11-01 17:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass her a note and ask her the question. Girls love notes of all sorts. There is a song, kind of corny but cute. Where he asks the girl to pick yes or no on the note. She could do the same thing and then you would know. Of course, beware though she will show your note to her friends first. If she is cool about it then she will be ok with it. But if she isn't you will find out one way or another. Just an idea.
2006-11-02 01:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out something she might enjoy doing, movie are easy, a concert is good. Be prepared to pay for the both of you (I never ask unless I'm going to pay for the whole thing) and handle transportation if necessary.
"Hi (girl's name), I can get an extra ticket to (event) on (day), I was wondering if you wanted to join me?"
If she says yes, cool: "Where do you want to meet? I'll pick you up at (time)"
If she says no, you can say "Do you have plans, or do you mean 'no, I'd rather not see you outside of school?'".
If she says no and gives an excuse (like "I have to be at ___ then")
Say "OK. I'd really like to spend more time with you, any chance can you spare it? We can go see (name movie) or meet at (name internet cafe neraby), I can buy you coffee and show you some of my favorite sites(not porn)."
Or "What about (Day) I've wanted to go to the zoo for awhile, do you want to check it out?"
After two nos, unless she gives you a time when she'll be available, its safe to assume she's not interested.
It really helps to have an event in mind, as people suck at coming up with stuff to do.
2006-11-02 02:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her face to face. Dont do what I did by giving a note because I'm a freaking tool and got shot down very badly. Trust your gut and think about her then you'll know what to say. The first thing girls look at guys is confidence so try to build that up right now.
2006-11-02 02:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should go something like .... " hey, what are you doing this weekend? i would love to take you to ( fill in the blank)."
she will say yes if she likes you or if she isnt already busy and then you should set a time to pick her up. if she cant because shes busy then ask her about the following weekend. if she says no or she cant and doesnt suggest another day then she isnt into you
2006-11-02 01:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by miss mackay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she really likes you then, play hard to get. It's well worht it in the end. If not just ask her to go do something with you (i.e. movies, miniture golf, dinner). Hopefully movies, since you get to spend time with her without really having to talk to her and risking something akward. Then maybe afterwards ya'll can expand your conversations just off one movie. Hard to explain, but you know, link something you want to ask her to the movie.
2006-11-02 01:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by smart_e_pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how to ask her..You're just afraid of been rejected..Be brave. If been rejected, at least you know you don't waste anymore time with her and look out for someone else..Right?
2006-11-02 01:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out and stop beening scare
2006-11-02 01:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ya open ya mouth and talk, that usually works.
2006-11-02 01:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to use dialog? okay.you should do it.
2006-11-02 01:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋