I was with this guy for almost four years. I have lost so much more self respect and dignity. I have let him cheat on me and I forgave him. He's tried making me feel like I am the blame, and now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and won't answer any of my phone calls as if I did something to him. What is that about?
2006-11-01 17:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take control of your life. Dump him. Move on....unless you like to suffer.
(he cheats on you and try's to lay the blame on you)... that is not a healthy relationship.
2006-11-01 21:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it, it's all over (or will be soon). Consider yourself lucky! Now it's time to pick up the pieces and rebuild your life and self-esteem. You are wiser now because of your experience with him. Don't ever let it happen to you again. Good luck!
2006-11-01 17:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by dds502 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come to terms with it and just realize that you did all you can for this relationship you did nothing wrong...dont call him dont do anything with him move on ....you know better you are far from blame here...it takes two people to be in a relationship...some people like to use other people as a crutch...just say goodbye and dont talk to him.....
2006-11-01 17:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find some else though its so God damn hard but you've got to do it.Don't waste your time on that kind of jerk.Theres more out there who's more respectful,loving,caring,understanding unlike your so called guy.So its for you to decide sweetie.He don't deserve you.
2006-11-01 18:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dated the guy for to long, 4 years is much may be he thinks ur not serious with the relationship so it is to late now move on
2006-11-01 17:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by frank w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not about nothing. The guy is apparently a pencil dick. Drop his *** ASAP, and although it may be hard, move on and find something better.
2006-11-01 17:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by PootieThangRawr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's running very good game on you.
Do something crazy and dump him so it can boost your horribly low self esteem.
2006-11-01 17:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you like a puppet, stop chasing him. You Make yourself look bad when your chasing him. GET A GOOD MAN.
2006-11-01 17:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has moved on prob. met someone new, time for you to follow suit and move on. Sounds like your better off that way anyhow.
-NmD!
2006-11-01 17:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, Baby!!
2006-11-01 17:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋