My AP Science teacher is unbelievably hot! i know that i shouldn't be looking at older guys but don't know where else to look! I am in high school and i never have liked guys my own age, just guys older than me. I'm not a girl that talks during class or gets in trouble all the time, but almost all the teachers know my name because I'm the funny bookworm that usually listens in class and gets really good grades. Science is usually my last class of the day and so after school a few of my friends and i hang around the science room after school for 10- 15 minutes. I really like my science teacher because he is funny, loves his job, and has a very cute laugh. He has a this sexy saunter, sultry voice, and these piercing electric blue eyes. It is pretty hard to pay attention in class because i'm checking him out. I know i shouldn't be checking him out at all, and i NEED TO STOP!!! can someone give me some advice please?!?
2006-11-01 17:44:08 · 13 answers · asked by Pretending2beSANE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how it feels b/c I kinda have that too, but you just have to think, "What if I were their age and somebody MY age was checking me out?" it gets sort of creepy, i know. Anyways, heh, you just have to focus on your work, try to find somebody else your age to distract you and keep them in your mind instead. Rubber bands work too. Put a rubber band on your wrist, and whenever you check them out or think about them, SNAP! Helped me out in some tight situations believe it or not!
Good luck!
2006-11-01 18:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best advice I can give you is to go HOME after class instead of hanging around this MAN's classroom. You are a high school student which probably means that you are a minor. He is someone who has chosen his life's work as teaching. If he is an attractive man, I can understand your interest, but you need to understand that if he became involved in a flirtation or a relationship with you it would ruin his career, he would probably be fired if found out and he probably would not get another teaching job, and that he could be prosecuted and put in jail for having a relationship with a minor student. You may be misreading his intentions about you - he simply may just be a good guy who thinks you are a good student and he's not interested in you at all, other than as a student. I hope you can realize that this is not a situation that makes it possible to have a relationship with this man. If you really like him and think he is a good person, don't put him in the embarrasing position of having to fend off your flirtation. If he is the one making the advances to you or other students - real advances, not just imagined ones, then tell your mother, or other responsible adult and don't hesitate to do this as soon as possible. You might save some unsuspecting girl from a predator. Sounds more to me like he is just unwise, having students hang out in his classroom after class.
2006-11-01 18:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by kathy s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, you dont need to stop, an older man is what you need, most girls do, just dont know it yet. the maturity level is closer, and he will be able to respect you more. will treat you better. and is much less likly to cheat on you. In most ways and situtations an older man with a younger girl is the best fit. Now the only thing to worry about here is your age, you must wait until you are 18 to date someone over 18, so cool it untill then, and then date someone at least 10 yrs older, or at least 30. that is where men will start to care about their women. at least you were lucky enough to find this out at an early age.
Ps where do you live, and how long until your 18, Im also what you are looking for I belive and if he wont go out with you, then maybe we could meet sometime...I like the bookworms.
2006-11-01 18:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
(1) It is for sure that he must be a married guy.. So if you fall in his love his family life will be destroyed...
(2) Moreover you also dont know how he feels about you..
(3) If both of you finds same level of attraction then release your sex energy and see if you can get the balance.. chances are less because it is like tasty food once you taste it you like to have more...
(4) You may like to change your school, if possible.
(5) On this earth you are not the only gal having such feeling for elders there are many.. and there are hundreds of psychological reasons behind them...
2006-11-01 18:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First; think about his wife and children ... would you want to break up his marriage ? I don't blame you for liking maturer men; especially when all the younger guys sit around and play with their cell cams - flashing them. My advice is to major in the minors with this teacher. Let it go ... you are too young to be getting it on with a man. It is all in the hormones and yours are bubbling right now ... so turn down the Bunsen burner in his classroom.
2006-11-01 17:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should walk up to him, and grab him by the sack really hard. They'll move you to another class after that, so you'll be able to concentrate again. Problem solved!
2006-11-01 17:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by willliewaggler 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you could do very well in class and be his favourite student and later on ask him questions about more stuff that he usually teaches and maybe he would give u home tution. haha. or you could so bad and you could suggest extra lessons. lolz
2006-11-01 17:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Chemgurl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i had that same problem if you do really good in class hell notice you then in my senior yeah i was his student aid so i got to see him all the time cuz i specifically asked to be his student aid and to made my schedual so i could only do it durring his free period
oh god he was young and latino wow he was fine
2006-11-01 17:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by lv23smurf 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with kathys fully great insight and really good advice.
2006-11-01 18:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to portray him as a joker adn the probably you will be able to get over him soon.
2006-11-01 17:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋