Im a 26 year old man,I was raised in the deep south hills of Texas and Im a Christian.Im a virgin,Im staying that way untill I get married.I am a nice looking young man, Im 6'3 with Black hair & Green eyes and tan skin...& I am one of the few (nice guys) left lol.But It seems like women only go for the bad guys...How come women dont like southern gentlemen anymore?
2006-11-01 17:42:18 · 12 answers · asked by Brian_26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not all that much different up here in the northeast. Nice men do land women, don't get me wrong....but the majority of men who land the women are the careless type. I think it's a universal reality no matter where you go.....why do you think so many men try to be careless, bad, look mean, etc.....it's all to win the ladies affection because we all know it works. Modern feminists try to tell us to treat a woman good, but we aren't affectionately or sexually rewarded in return......I think they need to re-evaluate their thinking.
2006-11-01 17:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women like the confidence and danger behind a 'bad boy'. And in today's sexually oriented society, a 26 year old virgin seems to be a turn off to many women. I enjoy a southern gentleman. I currently have my Texan. lol. He opens my doors and is very sweet; BUT he also isn't that 'christian good boy'. Unfortunatly; you are going to find a woman at church who shares your same views on religion and abstinence. There are less women than you think that are 'saving' it until marriage.
The original 'white wedding' ideals have been lost in this generation, unfortunatly. Sex is not just about Love anymore; it is all about pleasure, so not many people will save it for love.
It is going to be hard for you to find a woman like that; but dont dispare, they ARE out there; if you know where to look.
2006-11-01 17:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women DO like southern gentleman.
You probably think they don't because you're in New York or somethin'.
Try staying in the south.
You're just looking in all the wrong places.
Don't even try to look. It won't come if you do.
You sound like a nice guy.
That girl will come. Don't worry.
And I admire you for waiting till marriage.
That's what I'm doing as well.
2006-11-01 17:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding i live in the city and all my friends and i wish we could find guys like you! Girls love southern gentlemen trust me you will find someone if not come to the city and girls will be all over you! i can't get enough of your guys cute accents
2006-11-01 17:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seriously think because in today's society that's what they're around most. They're not wanting the norm, or what used to be good. They want something new, something different.
2006-11-01 17:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by PootieThangRawr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that the southern accend or "drawl" is a bit of a turn-off. It makes a man appear un-educated.
2006-11-01 17:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
U got it all wrong. women don't like gentlemen anymore.
2006-11-01 20:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by macman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HUN, TAKE IT FROM ONE WHO KNOWS...ONE GOOD SOUTHERN GENTLEMAN IS WORTH MORE THAN A THOUSAND OTHER MEN! HANG IN THERE, LOVE WILL COME WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
2006-11-01 17:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by honestypleeze 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one. They never liked southerners period.
2006-11-01 17:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Southern gentlemen?? how are they gentle??
2006-11-01 17:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by James 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋