like i am a realy nice guy and every girl ive been with has said that but i noticed i havent gotten anywere by being nice as soon as i stopped being nice to this one exo mines she wanted to get back with me because she says she missed me but i haveent gtten any were because of me being nice
2006-11-01 17:28:09 · 16 answers · asked by big daddy kane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me too,,, when your nice you get walked all over,,, i straight up want to be a bad person now,,, cuz when your good to people they take advantage of it,,, life is so twisted,,lol
2006-11-01 17:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by bebe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of nice guys in my life. I tell them I love them, I hug them, kiss them on the cheek, but they're all my best friends, the brothers I never had!
Someone once said "No woman is all sweetness." Women have a natural longing to feel that they can be dangerous sometimes. And a man that can provide a woman with that atmosphere, that can allow a woman to feel that she's allowed to be a little dangerous sometimes, that's the man who ultimately gets the girl.
I'd say, don't try to be mean, or change your natural kind-hearted ways, but do get to know what women are all about. When you look at a woman, respect her, be sweet and nice to her, but keep in mind that "this woman isn't all sweetness" and it'll show through. It'll show through that you understand what she's all about, and it'll show that you can provide her with what she needs. :-)
2006-11-02 01:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long do you think it will last? That is, you acting like someone your not. Will it make you happier? Maybe for awhile but it won't be real. I say, that your a very unique guy to be nice. There are not very many of you out there. So quit being something your not just to prove something to yourself. Your much to good for that.
2006-11-02 01:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you being nice is the problem...having a nice guy who care and worries is the best thing any girl can get..dont change that just to win a old girl back.....stay the same so the next women who deserves your true sweetness will actually experience it....good luck
2006-11-02 01:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mololina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you change your behaviour for a person, it will not last but if you are doing it for yourself then go ahead. But remember, a leapord cannot change its spots... if you're nice, you will always be nice unless circumstances around you make you change.
Maybe if you're nice enuff to wait, a nice girl will pop into your life soon....
2006-11-02 01:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might sound lame bit its true, everytime you are nice to a person, they take advantage of you, but when you are mean, all of the sudden its the other way around... let me tell you something that is very true... the control of a relationship is always in the hands of the person who cares the least :} does that make sense to you ?
2006-11-02 01:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by chuchilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can be nice, but don't let yourself be taken for granted. You have to be a little aggressive too sometimes, but being nice is not a weakness.
2006-11-02 01:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to be overly nice, or mean to anyone. You should just be yourself. That way when you meet someone, you know they like you for who you are, not just how nice you can be.
2006-11-02 01:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by crankyissues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a girl don't want a nice guy something is wrong with her. be yourself don't change just to get a girl.
2006-11-02 01:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stay the way you are and stay away from exes there was a good reason to break up
2006-11-02 01:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋