ok i just had a baby 5 weeks ago and i went back to work .ok i my best friend ask me could she watch the baby while i'll go because she's not working at this time. ok i use to be friends with my baby daddy cousin girlfriend but we kindda fell out so today she told my freind she's stupid for watching my baby she did'nt lay down and have him don't let me use her and get out and get her a job and let me deal with it my self. but before i had my baby the cousin girlfriend was trying to cook for my kids wash thier colthes and always told me when you go back to work bring the baby over her house anytime. so one day last week she ask me do i need her to watch the baby and i said no but turn around and let my best friend watch him (which i pays her 30.00 a day to watch him)but i just can't click with her like that she's the type of person she talk about what she do for people.and everybody is ready to see my down fall too so what you think it is
2006-11-01 16:29:41 · 5 answers · asked by toni m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Toni, you sure are doing it tough at the moment, my heart goes out to you.
What an admiral effort you're making, to go out and work and support you and your bub.
It sounds to me like these people are jealous of your strength and determination, and you're right, they do want to see you fail.
But you know what? You're better than that. You've got guts and determination and that's something they can't take from you.
Is there any way you can have someone else look after bub for you, so you don't have to involve them? Maybe a daycare centre or creche? A private babysitter perhaps?
Try not to let them get you down, you're doing ok holding up on your own so far, keep on doing what you're doing, and you'll be just fine.
You go girlfriend.
Good luck.
2006-11-01 16:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by harttattoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to avoid people who talk about what they do for people. I can really make another comment because it's too confusing to read. No commas, no full stops etc. All the best at school!!!
2006-11-02 01:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made the right choice. I'd never let someone watch my baby if I did not feel close with them.
2006-11-02 01:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel obligated to her- you don't owe her anything. You can't have her watching your child, if you don't like her.
2006-11-02 00:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't matter what it sounds like, you do what you feel is good for your baby and you....
2006-11-02 00:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋