Can you resist the sexual temptation if you are in a situation where you spend some times with a girl you like. The thing is that I've told a guy "kinda" like that I want to have sex with him too, but I don't really wanna complicate things. I'd rather spend some times with him and get to know each other first. In the past weeks, we've spent a good amount of time together. I just wanna make sure we won't be going too far and that we won't loose his mind before "the time." Am I being stupid or a tease if I hang out with him too much and make out without sex? How long can he wait and can guys resist temptation at all?
2006-11-01 16:23:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They can but when you put yourself in the situation IE: making out and spending time alone with one another it makes it harder than it has to be. Try not putting yourself in a situation where you are alone together, sex can destroy a relationship quick. Good luck!
-NmD!
2006-11-01 16:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of roughly how tempting that's going to be in case you do it now and what you will think of 9 months from then once you're a father of a new child and you are able to now no longer savour your childrens when you consider which you should strengthen as much as preserve slightly one. to no longer point out the prospect of STD'S and problems with that nature. What might your mothers and dads say, and how might her family members react? Virginity is a invaluable undertaking that ought to no longer be wasted on something that grew to become out to be the incorrect decision. in the event that they actually cared approximately you, they might have theory approximately loads of those issues and not attempt to tension you. intercourse would be there long after 2 weeks, have confidence me. i became as quickly as interior the comparable boat you're in now. keep it for the applicable lady. have confidence me that's properly worth it interior the long-term. I want you the main suitable of success.
2016-12-09 01:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by degennaro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, like d gurl said.. u want a f**k buddy or a relationship?
if its a relationship, n with d tight angle u've put urself.. he might last just a yr wihtout sex, then he wud think u were joking.. unless u make him thoroughly understand-NO SEX B4 MARRIAGE.
one more thing.. if u want to b a virgin or cut sex outta ur relationship, which is good... make sure u dont stay alone together at night... or even during the day
2006-11-01 17:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is always a temptation. Just make sure he knows that you want to wait for a while so he doesn't get pissed.
2006-11-01 16:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by alleyboy_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be clear about what you want... do you want a relationship or a f***-buddy? If you want a relationship, then it is wise to hold off on the physical stuff and just develop the friendship and trust. If you just want a f***-buddy then just go for it but don't expect anything more than sex.
2006-11-01 16:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you tell him exactly what you are doing, and why, then its not teasing, and he should be able to wait, but be honest. don't tell him you will later, then don't, so tell him that maybe later, if this or that, he will wait if he likes you.
2006-11-01 19:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋