How would you if your boyfriend wanted to get your name tattooed on his body with the date you started dating? You've been dating for 9 months and you have every intention of getting married someday. He's 22.
Would you be flattered and let him do it or would you be flattered and try to talk him out of it? If you're going to try to talk him out of it what would you tell him?
For guys would you let your gf do this? Or have you ever wanted or done this for someone?
Thanks for the answers. (i know i've asked this once but i wanted more opinions)
2006-11-01 15:50:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
Hey tattoo, I have several tatts and my wife has one, to answer your question I would suggest that you should feel flattered. BUT please try to talk him out of it ...explain it to him like this.... Ask him to wait a while and think on it...and then if he really wants to go ahead... It is a permanent and lasting thing and very personal .....most folks get them to remind them of life changin events or that very special someone.... But on not a whimm... good luck... and don't be surprised if he goes ahead and gets the tatt.
2006-11-01 16:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel Flattered. Extremely Flattered!!
Then I would think that the guy has some serious issues... and the fact that I'm even questioning whether he should get a Tattoo of my name is proof enough that I'm not really as sure about this relationship as he is - or is trying to be.
I'd offer an Image, or other such graphic to 'signify' our Love - this way, the Flattery is maintained, but the 'Psycho' stigma associated with getting someones name branded on him doesn't exist.
2006-11-01 16:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by SYNTAX 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are in the same boat. He wanted to get my name tattooed on him, and we've got every intention of marrying, and we've been dating for a year and a bit.
I just told him that I was incredibly flattered but I didn't want him to do it. I told him that it's always a bad idea to have names tattoed on you. He said he'd hold it off, but nothing could stop him after we were married.
2006-11-01 18:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crazy! And i thought my husband and I were the crazy ones too! Well....I cant tell you dont do it..cuz I did the same thing!! Only thing, hubby and I were only dating for 4 months when we tattooed each others name on our arm. Got engaged 6months into dating...and got married a year later. (But through all that...we knew each other back in freshmen year of highschool) When we went to get it done..I had him go first. Then when he was done... I was ready to walk out the door. LOL... but I did it. But you both should think about it.
2006-11-02 02:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Island girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
, U should be flattered !
but I guess U should talk him out of this ,
I m not saying that you 2 will not get married , I bless both of U ..
but , U see , ..
marriage is ( supposed to ) last till death makes parts
while Tattoo IS till death ,
so he have taken a HUGE move to prove his love to U , but try to talk him out of it , buy him a gold necklace with your name written on it , and tell him to wear it all the time
or a watch that has your name engraved in the back , these stuff are really nice, yet healthy
2006-11-01 15:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by BekO 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 05:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when you get your bf/gf's name tattooed on you it means your relationship will be over in less then 6 months. If you want the relationship to last, don't do it. Save the name tat's for your kids and deceased loved ones.
2006-11-01 16:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend wants to get your name tattooed on himself then he might as well ask you to marry him. Both are for life (well, supposed to be). Tell him the wedding comes before the tattoo.
If a marrage is in trouble then there's marrage councilling to make it work, if a relationship like boyfriend and girlfriend is in trouble there's a bigger chance it's not going to work out. A tattoo doesn't work as well as being married when it comes to commitment even tho it's a huge commitment in itself.
2006-11-02 04:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by merihell75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY rule is NO NAMES under any circumstances. I know too many people stuck with someone else's name on their bodies. What if you die suddenly or whatever. Not nice to say, but it is simply not a wise decision! Tell him you love him so much you don't want to jinx the relationship.
Also, temporary tattoos are available and fun for special occasions!
2006-11-01 19:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not want him to do that, if anything ever happened he would be really regretful. I would tell him that he does not need to put my name on his body for me to know how much he loves me and I would rather have him show it in some otherway, like make me a romantic dinner with our names engraved on a fancy napkin! i would have to talk him out of the tattoo
2006-11-01 15:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋