I've never actually had a boyfriend and I'm 19. My mom had me at an early age and I don't want her thinking we doing anything cause we've only been together a month and she has just heard of him. I need to know how to Introduce them, Keep in mind I'm a black female with a strong black mother!! I need to know where to begin, end and make sure everything goes well.
2006-11-01 15:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by PrincessB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First determine if he is the kind of dude your mother would approve of. ( what do you think her impression of him would be). If she'll like him, introduce him. If she wouldn't like him for what ever reason. Dont date him anymore. She has experience and knows and understands things you dont. The best advice you can ever get is from your parents, not your friends. Find someone you know she will like and approve of. Since you only been together a month, you should wait longer to introduce her anyway. The relationship may not even work out, so you may introducing him for nothing. Wait to see if it is going to be a long term relationship. That usually takes many months to determine. He'll be great the first few months then things may slowly change.
2006-11-01 15:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunearth_moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. No matter how you introduce them to each other, you are still going to get the same reaction.
2006-11-01 15:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce them then later tell your mom she has nothing to worry about since she raised you to be a strong woman and to have respect for you body.
2006-11-01 15:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by ldygrnleaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to introduce ur boyfriend to ur mom as ur boyfriend.. just make sure that the both of you will still prioritized ur studies and your not afraid coz ur not doing anything wrong.. you know ur limitations and be responsible.... and she'll understand...
2006-11-01 15:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Maia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the one who knows your mom,, Try inviting her to lunch or dinner,, keep it a neutral open place if you think she is going to rear her strong black momminess!!
2006-11-01 15:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just introduce him
2006-11-01 15:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom, boyfriend. Boyfriend, mom.
Done.
2006-11-01 15:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like this.......Hi Mom, this is my boyfriend.... The end. Its not that hard. Stop making things, so complex, when its soooooo simple... Hope this helps.... :)
2006-11-01 15:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋