ok so i like a guy no thats an understatement i love this guy and he knows. a friend of mine asked him if he liked me and he said maybe. first of all, does that mean yes? and if so, how can i talk to him? he knows i like him and i really want to start a conversation but i am the shyest person i know around boys
2006-11-01 15:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by teehee311 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not the shyest person, cause everybody think so when it comes to making the first attempt. I think it was a mistake for your friend to go to him instead of you. You should have went up to him. It shows that you are weak and cannot approach him. But don't worry you are probably a teenager, and we all felt the same your age. Make sure YOU go to him next time. Don't tell him you love him up front, but instead ask him out. If he says no, don't be too pushy and look for other fishes.
2006-11-01 15:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... When us guys say "maybe", what were usually saying is yes we do like her, but are a little shy to say it ourselves. Talking to him, well, I'm also very, very shy around ladies, and when my friends want me to talk to one, they'll usually find someone that they know, and who knows the lady, and set up a get together or party, or something, as an excuse to get us in the same area, so we can meet each other. Maybe try this, it does wok.
2006-11-01 15:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start with casual conversation about random things. Start to become friends with him and once that is into place you can slowly move things along. If you become friends, that "maybe" that may have meant no could easily turn into a yes.
2006-11-01 15:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by patience032651 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what happened with me: This girl started liking me. So she started talking to me like she had known me my whole life. Having not ever spoken to her before, I didn't really like her, one because I didn't know her, and two because I thought she was out of my league and I didn't want to be disappointed. but knowing that she was interrested (I knew this because she just started talking to me out of the blue) got me interrested. This was because I talked to her and got to know her, and what I knew, I liked. eventually I got the guts up to ask her out and she said yes. Over a year later, we are still together and I love her more than anything.
Two suggestions:
1. Before too long, be sure he knows you're interested, if he's not very smart, don't be too subtle.
2. Be yourself, if he doesn't like you for who you are, than the probability of this relationship lasting is not good. Don't start something you think will fail.
2006-11-01 15:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by u asked so here it is 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say hi. You say hi to hundreds of people all the time, so he's no different. Just treat him like you would a sales clerk. If you can talk to a sales clerk, you can talk to this guy. And if he's a jerk to you, then blow it off and find another. Good luck.
2006-11-01 15:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cannibal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mabye can be yes if they are they dont want to admit that they really do like you. Or they could say mabye if they dont want to hurt your feelings and say they dont like you. If I was in that situation I would just give it some time and he might come up with a real answer!
2006-11-01 15:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him if you want your answer. Admit to him that you are really shy and it is taking everything you have to ask him. If he was just as shy and didn't want to talk about it to anyone other than you he will be able to appreciate your actions and hopefully give you the response you are looking for.
2006-11-01 15:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Darkwraith83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his number from your friend, or have your friend to arrange a meeting with all three of you (since you said you are shy) and see how it goes. You have nothing to loose, and everything to gain - this could be either the biggest mistake of your life, or the love of your life!
2006-11-01 15:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in maybe are mostly yes and pretend to bump into him and start talking ask him if he is okay or something and talk say hi and you are my friends friend something to get started and think before you say something.. good luck
2006-11-01 15:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by happypeach28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No id osent mean yes but dont over react!!! OMG DONOT OVER REACT also to talk to him just be cool be yourself and try to get cool with him, but you got to be careful not to throw your self at him if ya need sum more help hit me up on my email
2006-11-01 15:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by ~Cookie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋