I am 20 yrs old and i have never been in a relationship. I know it may sound weird but from where i come, it is perfectly normal....
there were some guys whom i liked but i never knew whether i just liked them or actually loved them...
maybe my lack of understanding has to do with the fact that i do not have a perfect definition of love, or even how one falls in love...what happens when one falls in love and all that...
so through your answers i may be able to find out whether i was ever in love with any of the guys that i liked!
Thank you guys for helping me!
2006-11-01 15:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is a feeling of intensity that just happens naturally. It is acceptance of the other naturally at their best and worst, instant attraction, instant connection, liking all instantaneously and all flowing naturally.
To love is a feeling that is irreplacable and to engage in love making with that individual is a feeling that once experienced can never again be duplicated. Constantly thinking and longing for that person when not in each other's presence. When 2gether, they complete you and they are your all, you do not feel as though you are missing anything else in life. You long for no other, and wandering eyes are not in your vocabulary; true love in and of itself is a gift that happens once in a life time and you will know it when it happens.
2006-11-03 07:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you don't know whether you've been in love, then you haven't been in love.
It's quite a hard question to answer.
When I first started going out with my boyfriend, I only liked him a lot... It was a very gradual shift into love.
I realised I was in love when I started to feel lots of butterflies when I thought about him. I missed him when I wasn't with him. I felt safe and secure when I was with him. Other than that, it's just a really strong feeling of this is the guy for me.
I guess the feelings are different for everyone but when you're in love, believe me you'll know!
Good luck finding Mr. Right! Falling in love is a really beautiful experience and you will know when it happens.
2006-11-01 15:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me. I was a virgin until i was 21 and i thought i was so in love i would do anything for the guy, he wasn't mr sunshine to say the least and i have messed up my marriage a couple times because i am looking for something i don't think really exists I think relationships should be like the romance novels or soap operas i havent exactly figured it out. i am 29 now and i am married and i still can not tell love from infatuation and lust. I still have feelings sometimes i don't know if i should have or why i have them. My advice to you is take it slow and don't make any rash decisons. Good luck
2006-11-01 15:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was in love when it became so hard to say goodnight. When all I thought about was him. When I was so distracted by talking to him that I didn't notice half the things going on around me. When I just want to grab him and kiss him passionatly. When he does the little things for you. When you want to look your best for him. When you know little details and keep them in your memory. When you just want to gaze into his eyes. When your heart flutters when he walks in the room. When he treats you so good. I could go on forever I knew I was in love because I met the right man and I waited a long time for him. I'm 21 will be 22 next month and I met my bf when I was 19.
2006-11-01 15:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by pinkbunnylol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you fall in love you get a "butterfly in stomache" feeling when you go around them. Seeing them makes you feel happy. You feel you act different around them. Get a friend to tell you if you've been acting around the person you likes and etc...
2006-11-01 15:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by colour Raynebow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK , I'm in good mood, 1 point of 6th level:
Listen babe, I tell you the truth, is step of filings - how you love:
0. start from the Teddy bear 1.your fish,
2.your cat,
3.your dog,
4.your little brother or sister'
5.older brother or sister,
and how parents loves you. If you can love your parent more then they love you and is equal to your man. You love him.
2006-11-01 15:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find yourself thinking of this person all the time, missing thier very presence. Just being with them, you feel so safe and satisfied , just happy to be alive in the moment. Happy to have found them....scared of losing them. wanting to know everything about them and never wanting to leave their side. Looking forward to being with them. Knowing that they understand you and that you can tell them anything you want ......Its Magical !!!
2006-11-01 15:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know ur inlove when u just see that person and no one else... when you feel like the luckiest person to be with that someone...when you think about them it almost makes you cry or it does make you cry... when ur absolutely happy you met them..when you look at them and picture you being with them for the rest of your life... when you get this feeling that you have never gotten before in you entire life..
2006-11-01 15:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Yhpargotohp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think of him and no one else could be love but also if you have to ask if it is love maybe you need more time
2006-11-01 15:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy asks your phone # or gets close to you
2006-11-01 15:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋