How do u know if your man's cheating??? I need real examples not go through his phone type of thing ya know???

Question

I dont want random things such as going through his phone or going through his ****....he's smarter than that if he's gonna cheat!

ok well three years is how long we have been together! a long time i know but now he does his hair a lot and wears cologne just not the kind I bought him....when i ask him he says well i cant be a scrub going to school....he is also calling me jealous a lot more when i barely nag him could it be cuz its really him?

1 more thing he has no friends or a job and im mostly always with him unless he makes an excuse but he'll say he cheated just to piss me off and i find out its not true but then on the other hand i call and call and no answer ever!!! "my phone was dead or whatever" its bullshyt

Answer 1

guys are not smart when it comes to cheating
how bad do you want to find out? usually if you suspect something then your instincts are right. im the kind of perosn that i go through their phone anyway. usually when they are in the shower. if you suspect him of cheating, he may not think that you suspect him. if you really wanted to find out you could i think you are just scared to know the truth. most of the time men are dogs even if they dont want to be. sometimes they just cant help it. its part of their ego. tehy feel like they need to be reassured that they are the sexiest man alive. its so pathetic.

anyway good luck and dont feel like you are invading his stuff if you are suspicious. you just want to know. GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

1) He keeps his cell phone on vibrate when you are around, you'll know because periodically he will pull it out and check it.
2)You cant get a hold of him after certain times of the day, usally at night.
3)He always tells you that he doesn't know what he has planned--this has to be consistent
4)he never speaks to you for more than 5 minutes at a time over the phone
5)You have never or RARELY go to his house and/or he plans for you to go over but then gives the stupid "roommate" excuse
6)he tells you his phone is dead when in all actuality he shuts it off when he's with his other girl, or guy. "I'm zerious"
7)he'll make plans with you, and either break them or not show up or call at all.

Hope this helps some....

Answer 3

You may never really know. But if you are suspecting that he is then something is wrong with your relationship. Maybe it's him, maybe its you. Sit down have a conversation about this. After the conversation, take a long hard thought about whether you believe what he said and whether he tried to address your feelings. If that is good -- stay. If it's not good -- go to counseling and/or leave the realationship. Life is to short for that kind of insecurity and if you are wrong he shouldn't have to deal with it either.

Answer 4

i dont like the whole "well my phone was dead" or "i didnt hear my cell ring" cause that makes me mad.theyre making excuses to not pick up the phone.i would also get mad when he tells you he cheats cause hes being a butthole.why would anyone who has a jealous partner wanna make them more jealous or scared of you cheating by putting something like that in their head? it just seems unfair and not very nice.i probably wouldnt even be with this guy.no offense but he sounds like a real waste of time.

Answer 5

When he starts accusing you of cheating and blaming you for crazy stuff, that's a sign. Beleive me, men are so stupid, they can't pretend that nothings going on. They're idiots! He'll start asking you questions, asking where you've been, he'll just be trying to cover his ***. Don't think he really cares, he feels Guilty. I hope this helps. Even if you think he's cheating, why worry, dump the loser.

Answer 6

How do u know if your man's cheating...well if he's smart and he doesnt want you catching him out then it maybe very hard to tell...
but if he's away from you more than usual...'working late' all the time...going out with his friends more...that kinda thing then maybe that'd be a sign..
or if he seems really obsessed with how he looks when maybe he didnt used to be...or
maybe he might start working out a lot...or he's buying loads of new clothes and stuff..
they could be signs that somethings not right

Answer 7

he stops wantings sex or starts coming home late or making excuses to work late. He starts caring about his appearance. Dressing up for no reason. Shaving or putting on cologne more than usual. Buying new cloths, trying a new style. Listening to new music. and other misc things

Answer 8

You are only going to know if (1) you catch him, (2), he admits it, or (3) you have a very reliable source you can believe. If none of these exist, then either forget the idea, or get another boyfriend whom you feel you can trust and quit wasting time on this one! Good Luck!

Answer 9

a really good way to find out if he is cheating... make up an other account... (if he has a chatting site or msn or anything) make a fake account... and put some other gurls picture on it.. and start talking to him like an other girl, ask if he has a gf or ask him to go out and meet him somewhere... anything thta u want to find out.. and u will find out what you want to hear and if he is cheating leave his ***... just dont tell him u made an other account... and when u do talk to him.. SAVE everything u talked about... good luck : )

Answer 10

Do you have a real reason for being suspicious? Or are you just thinking he's going to cheat because you are so insecure?
Men who have nothing to hide, HIDE NOTHING!
He should be an open book for you. He is either willing to tell you where he is going, & where he's been, or he's full of cr*p.
If he's giving you straight detailed answers without hesitation, then you need to learn to trust him.