He is a good friend but I told him many times I could never love him..(only because I thought we had a misuderstanding) He knows I love this other guy very very much..but he being stubborn and not answering my IM or emails...what his problem?
2006-11-01 15:13:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said he could never be made at me and he wanted to even meet me with my BF and before i was engaged (different BF) and he wanted to go to my wedding so thats why I don't understand
2006-11-01 15:19:26 · update #1
He pobably wants more than you wish to give namely LOVE.It is nice to have good friends but to some wanting love is more important to them Being without love or the hope of love is down right miserable .Maybe your friend is looking for that hope or someone to love him .Loneliness affects us in different ways and it seems like he is a good man by not trying to break up your love with your real boyfriend .He may talk to you again when he sorts out his problems .Respect his right to privacy for now and wait and see what the future holds .
2006-11-01 15:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's cause he likes you, and now he's jealous. guys are like that. don't worry, he'll come around, he just needs to get over, on his own time, that he can't have you. but hey, be flattered that he likes you!!! just keep contacting him from time to time, but don't mention the other guy, and he'll come around and realize he'd rather have you in his life as just a friend than not have you in his life at all.
2006-11-01 15:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not answering your email or IM, just leave it alone. If he can't accept the fact that you have nothing more to offer him than friendship, too bad!
2006-11-01 15:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him be. he needs to have some time alone. he obviously likes you alot. male friends usually do and will get all crappy if you dont have the same feelings. live different paths for now until he gets over you.
2006-11-01 15:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be that he wants more than just friendship. That he thought you would change your mind. Or that he could change it for you. He is probably hurt or embarrased.
What was your misunderstanding about?
2006-11-01 15:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's attracted to you then it's probably best for him to stay away from you because his feelings are not going to go away. Being around you is probably torture for him. Back off girl.
2006-11-01 15:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by MsT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz not many can handle rejection well..just leave him alone and he'll cool down and reflect..he might make d first move to contact you, but dun be afraid to make the first move to contact him after a few days..
2006-11-01 15:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by LadyN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be selfish. He wants more than a friend and you don't. He finds it painful to be around you when he can't have you. You want it all.
Leave him alone for a while.
2006-11-01 15:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men cant be just friends if they have more intense feelings. I think it makes it too hard for them emotionally....ahhh yes they truly have emotions they just hide well.
2006-11-01 15:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men want to associate friendship (with a female) with sex. No love involved, just a female friend with sex for benefits.
2006-11-01 15:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋