We can't see each other too often but I really like him. It really seems like he's into me and I am into him but I have never done the long distance thing before so I am not use to not seeing him when I want. How do I distract myself and keep myself from being so sensative when I don't hear from him. When we talk it's great but we don't talk every single day. The days we don't I feel so sad.
2006-11-01 15:04:21 · 4 answers · asked by veronski 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok I moved away from my old school and it was hard because I had everygirl jealous of me because of all the boys that liked me and now I am the geek or something. Anyways I had this boy that I had a crush on and his friend told me that he liked me and I was so happy our teacher moved us next to each oter and at the end of class we would have a nice talk. I still miss him but what I did was think about what he does that is not perfect and I always take one of those fortune teller things and ask them if he still likes me and it always ends up with the answer no so I said he is missing out on alot because I am one fine hottie.
2006-11-01 15:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by smart smart. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he know how you feel when you don't get to talk to him? Communication is key, how are you going to get to really know each other if you don't talk to one another, phone, e mail, IM? How often do you two plan to get together? You said 'it really seems like he's into me', are you sure? Have you two talked about where this relationship is headed? What do you want to have happen? What does he want? Don't make him your universe, have a life, keep up with your friends, etc. Talk about the future and make plans. The holidays are coming up, what's the plan? Good luck
2006-11-01 15:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter that you dont see him lots, just as long as you communicate then it should be pretty okay. you should have some sort of plan or something to say oh, lets call each other everyday. and if something happens, then you know right away, oh something happened. if you really like him, then just go for it. meanwhile while you dont see him / dont talk to him, just be happy about how much you like him, how things are working out so well :)
2006-11-01 15:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by BABBYK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can simpathize I'm in the USA and my boyfriend lives in the UK. Trust me it took a long time to get used to and not hearing from him every day used to freak me out and i always thought something happened or he didn't like me anymore ect.. Trust me you have to realize that he can't always call you up or e-mail you ect.. I know kinda sounds harsh don't take it personally. Just try to keep yourself busy with other things. Thats what I do I try to stay busy. I know boys don't always think about it but if I know I'm going to be out and busy with something that will take up mostly all of my day I e-mail him and tell him I'm out. He and I talk mostly on the computer its cheepest to e-mail or to instant message for us. I can even talk to him on the computer like a phone with my messenger its nice. But trust me keeping busy with stuff when you can't talk to each other is the best thing you still think about it but you get used to not having that conact all the time. Its super hard for me not to freak out but I know he is fine just something keeping him from being able to talk.
2006-11-01 15:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by pinkbunnylol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋