to trust or not? what is freedom?

Question

hi all,
i just woulad like to know about the idea of making frenz of opposite gender when u r attached.its ok or its better to avoid?they say friends r for u to talk when u r need of advise or vice versa.but y need friends when ur other half(i mean partner) is there?y can he/she b ur soulmate,bestfriend,friend,sis/bro,enemy and wife/husband?how to know that the trust that is given is not being misused?opinion anyone......?

Answer 1

This is hard and a friend of mine is going through the same thing at the moment.

She is friendly with a workmate and is married. He isn't. He wants to be friends and she wants to be friends but her husband has blatently said she is no longer to have lunch alone with him.

She is doing what her husband says because she doesn't want to do anything that would upset him.

Answer 2

When a person is really into another person, all others just naturally fall by the wayside. Friends of either gender may get less time and attention than before. If the person's heart is really in it, they are not going to be acquiring additional new friends of the opposite sex if they are not in denial about the message it sends when you do start up a friendship. Anyway, their free time will be with you, so how would they have time to start new friendships?

Friends that already exist should not be dropped, as long as it's clear to everybody where everybody stands. As long as your mate is sending out the messages that he/she is not available to those friends the way he/she used to be because now he/she's with you, it puts everybody in their place on its own. If you get together and hang out and everyone knows each other, those opposite sex friends have to look you in the eye and accept you. You also get to observe body language and "innocent" jokes , and dispel any fears you may have for yourself.

However, if the person is not open about those friendships, if you don't get to meet them ever, or if it seems your opportunities to interact with them are being blocked, if they don't know about you and/or meet you and don't have to acknowledge or respect your existence in your significant other's life, those are red flags. If your partner doesn't freely share that he spends time with them, and you are finding this out after the fact, or he's spending time with them alone, away from you, bad news.

Especially, don't hesitate to ask if any of these friends are ex's. You may want to be able to trust your partner, but other people's intentions may not be so platonic. Sometimes in those cases there is one person who maintains the veil of friendship in the hopes that they may zoom in when the shoulder is needed to cry on when the new love is breaking their heart.

Be open minded and secure, but don't second guess your gut either.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

you should have friends of both sexes.
it is not good to have only one person in your life.
your thinking would become too narrow and dull.

Answer 5

Don't mess with it. Better safe then sorry.