My current girl was in a relationship for 2 years, and they broke up 2 months ago, now we are working on a relationship and she still thinks about him alot and crys over him, yet she loves being with me, and as do i with her, yet she is having trouble leaving him behind, how can i help her?
2006-11-01 14:50:41 · 21 answers · asked by Bailey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is not over him and there is nothing you can do. She should have waited before beginning a new relationship in all fairness to you. So, you will have to just wait and see what is going to happen. you really have no control in this situation. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-01 14:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two years is a pretty long time to be with someone.Give it time and patience and she will finally come around, Take her to different places and do different things that she has done before, make all things new to her,tell her you understand and will be patient with her because you want to have a relationship with her and ask her what you can do to make her happy and make her forget the other guy. Bring her flowers and lots of hugs and sweet talking might work, good luck
2006-11-01 14:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By leaving her.
There is no human way possible she could be over a 2 year relationship that quickly, unless she is cold and heartless. In which case, you are in for trouble.
2006-11-01 14:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can do to help her. its up to her to leave him behind. i think ya'll should just be friends for now and when she's really moved on ya'll can get back together. there's certain characteristics that the guy has that you don't which makes it harder for her to get over him. She may be with you just to fill out the void. What she needs right now is a friend, not a boyfriend. Good luck!!!
2006-11-01 14:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are like that. They have relationships and have a very hard time forgetting. You need to be gentle and understanding. Do the kind of things she likes, Flowers, A card with a nice note. Make her feel special and she will soon forget her past
2006-11-01 14:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind her of the reasons they broke up, and all the things that she didn't like about him, but do it in an honest way. remind her of all the things YOU Love about her, and show her how much she means to you. and how you WANT to do everything in your power to make her happy. and she should realize that she's not only JUST happy with you but so much better off with you. if you truly feel this way, how could she not love You.... if she doesn't respond to that than she doesn't deserve you. the fact is I'm in the same boat as her and the guy that I'm dating now help me so much to forget about the last guy by just listening to me rant, I hate talking about it though, because I know it hurts him when I do, but in order for me to move on I need to talk, and be heard. Good Enough?
2006-11-01 15:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by KatieJB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is give her time and support. It takes time to heal after a breakup. Just be there for her. And she'll know that you have been there for her and know that she is really cared for by you. And then she will move on and continue the relationship.
2006-11-01 14:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by biochick11220 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not ready for a new relationship. She needs to do more mending and you need to let her. There will be bigger issues to deal with down the road if she doesn't get over him!
2006-11-01 14:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space and don't pressure her. Be an open ear but don't give her advice, women just need to talk these things out sometimes. Make her laugh and do things she enjoys, eventually that other guy will be a distant memory.
2006-11-01 14:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by miss_fred 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure there is anything you can do, really. Getting over the other guy is up to her and only she can trully do this. What you can do is continue to be loving be there for her whenever she needs you.
2006-11-01 14:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋