my 2yr8mnth bf & I broke up 5 mnths ago & just stopped talking for a week cuz i pushed him away. i'm just really confused & i know that I still have strong feelings for him. when we were still hanging out he finally told me the truth (after more than 2yrs) about him calling his friend (girl) in the middle of the night and she came over at the house ....also emailed another girl to hang out with. He said nothing happened at all and girl he emailed didn't even hang out. i believe him somehow cuz we live in a small town so if it did happen then i would hear about it & when we were just friends when i came over at 2 a.m. at his house, he didn't even touch me at all. how come he just told me truth after our relationship? why did he lie???? should i believe him on everything he's told me??????? why do guys lie and at the same time he says i love you everyday?????????
2006-11-01 14:50:00 · 9 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he did those when we had a fight and "broke up" with him (but he knows i didn't mean it)..................and he told me he just wanted a companion and tried calling me but i wouldn't answer my cellphone
2006-11-01 15:11:45 · update #1
the truth is guys always(some) think the grass is greener on the other side ..they will investigate..if it gets them laid then bonus to them..just assume he's lying ..then its not going to hurt as much..I would move on.. a real man who says he loves you means it..and is true only to you, his love(girl)..your job is to keep your man interested in you.pay more attention to his needs...love and be loved..
2006-11-01 14:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start looking for another (better) boyfriend. He is definitely NOT ready to be attached to only ONE girl. He is still playing the field and "looking" for someone that will make him happy and pull his trigger.
Evidently, you are not that girl. Probably isn't your fault, there is just something missing in yours and his relationship.
If you think you have trouble with him now, just wait until you finally capture him, If you do, in marriage. Yikes!!!
The term "I love you" does NOT mean that he is IN love with you and you are everything he wants in life.
If YOU were ALL HE wanted....he wouldn't be "testing the field".
Think about it a l o n g time. You need a new boyfriend and he is out there.....waiting. Good luck. Pops
2006-11-01 22:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need another screen name, 'cause you don't sound like a very happy person. (more like intense).
Remember he's a Bf. Not your HUSBAND. He's finally beginning to trust you enough to come clean with a couple of minor mistakes, & you treat him like he had an affair with these girls.
You taught him & other guys that read your question, that honesty in a relationship doesn't always pay.
Especially if your Gf is high strung, & jealous.
2006-11-01 22:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care you dumped him. Its over move on. Do this little thing for me if you would:
1) Get a piece of paper
2) Write your name on it
3) fold it carefully
4) place it into your wallet and keep it with you always
5) take it our and read what is on the paper whenever you forget the names of all the people in the world you can trust.
2006-11-01 22:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by white_yack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully he isnt lying, but chances are he is. you just got to really look at the past and how things have been and judge him as a person. i hope the best for you.
2006-11-01 22:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bailey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just playing games with you and don't let him keep doing it you. Beleave me I am a guy and I have had it happen to me but from my ex girlfriend.
2006-11-01 22:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by wolann31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he feels guilty for something that he done that he is lying about....so he hasnt told you the whole truth yet....he did more than nothing ....trust me
2006-11-01 22:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how most men are, although i'm not like that. Don't give it too much importance, it won't do you any good.
2006-11-01 22:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. Very funny. Why do girls lie too?
2006-11-01 22:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋