Ladies Please Help: another penis question but with a slight twist?

Question

I'm wondering I just met this girl and she wants to make out, the problem is that I'm a virgin and she's not. Well more so the problem is that I max out at 5 inches on a good day, I shaved it all smooth and hairless down there and I was wondering what most would most women probably think of that? She's 21 too and thinking of giving up her babysitting job to be with me so I need an opinion, please be honest.

Thanks very much for your help I'm totally inexperienced in these things and appreciate the help. (btw I'm 21, six foot one, an undergrad and in decent shape ) Thanks

Answer 1

First we need girth

Also either she's figured out you are a virgin, or she wonders why you haven't tried to sleep with her yet

Please make sure you you find a way to let her know before you have sex that you are a virgin - it really sucks (pardon the pun) to be getting down to it and figure out that he is scared to death - she needs to know that she needs to take the lead - and please please listen to what she is telling you - you can learn a lot from a girl if you just do what she says - she's not going to ask you for something in bed if she doesn't really want it - and don't forget the protection

let her know
relax
listen
protection

And the other girls are right about don't believe the 9" stuff - not in the real world ans also smaller is better a lot of the time - I personally don't prefer pain

Answer 2

Shaved down there? I guess that is the going thing. All you can do is take a chance. 5-7 is the range, so I think you'll be alright in that capacity. She sounds like she has a plan. I don't know why she'd give up her babysitting job unless she plans to live off of your income. I think I'd date her a while longer and tell her to keep her job until you know what her motives are.

Answer 3

To be honest, if she judges you solely on your size and not on your abilities, then she isn't even worth taking your pants off for. I've known people like that and they are way too shallow for me to want to date let alone get naked or have sex with.

Besides the average guy is just under 6 inches when erect so your 5 inches is more than adequate. So, do not underrate yoruself, once you get in some practice you can be as good a sex partner as any guy and possibly even better than those of us who are 6 or more. Like the old saying says, practice makes perfect. And she shoudl never judge a book by it's cover; even if it a short story.

Answer 4

Okay i try not to get too serious on this but I had to answer your question. She is willing to give up her babysitting job to be with you. that is your statement and that should be your answer. She really likes you and isn't going to care about how big or how little or how hairy or ummm not hairy you are. My ex-husband was probably your size if not smaller then you and he was the best lover I ever had....he had other skills. When you first have sex with someone whether you are experienced or not there will be some awkward moments. You will learn. She will help you learn to pleasure her and you will help her learn how to pleasure you. Don't stress out about it or put too much pressure on yourself. Just relax and have fun. by the way does it itch yet :)

Answer 5

There is a lot more to sex than penis size. I would say that shaving is a definite plus. No hair in the mouth or to get pulled, it's much nicer that way. As for the virginal part she can use that to her advantage. Since you haven't been with anyone else you haven't developed habits or likes that should might not find attractive.In my late 30's I hooked up with a guy in his 40's who turned out to be a virgin. It was great once he learned how to control himself. I taught him everything that I liked and the sex was GREAT!

Answer 6

I am going to be completely honest with you!! Some woman are not that shallow, to give a s*** about the size of your penis, however some woman are that shallow... i suggest (if your having sex) to start off with 4 play (I.E./ kiss her neck, ears.. nibble on her ear lobes and neck remember i said nibble NOT BITE!! And kissing of course) With kissing you dont want to choke her on your tongue (LOL) but you dont want her to go searching for it either... meet her half way (These steps are good for just making out to!!!) If sex is involved then you might want to use your fingers down there and alot of oral (If you know what i mean) Get really good at oral, and once you have satisfied her "urgent" need then move on with sexual intercourse and just go with the flow!!! you will know when it is time to move faster (if you dont know she will let you know by her movements, etc...) But i think you are worrying too much about the size of your penis, just relax and GO WITH THE FLOW!!!

HOPE I HELPED!!

~CHEERS!!~

Answer 7

Do not feel so insecure. I would talk to her and explain the things you just said. If she is shallow then you don't have to worry about her any more. You have nothing to be ashamed of and I am proud of you for being a virgin. Honey, it's not the size but what you do with it. Don't let it bother you. You are fine.

Answer 8

first off, make sure she is the one for you to give this gift. You have such a precious gift, and you are average size for males(don't believe the 9 inch tall tales) if she loves u she will love your gift. Furthermore, before she starts making huge commitments like giving up her job, finish ur degree and make sure that you can handle that financially. Your schooling comes first and she should support that. Above all else pray

Answer 9

"I just met this girl and she wants to make out"? Whooaaa, Charley. Is she insecure, does she feel unattractive, that she wants to offer physical intimacy so soon? Someone who does this is shopworn, sad, and vulnerable. SLOW DOWN!
As to your physical concern---no prob. Do you think women carry around a tape measure? A woman's sexual parts are designed to fit a man's; the overwhelming majority of women could not tell the difference during intercourse between 5 inches or seven. Relax.

Answer 10

I would think that it is weird that you would shave yourself totally bald. She shouldnt have a problem with you and your penis. Just make sure that she is the one that you want to lose your virginity to because once its gone you can never get it back so thats why you have to be sure when you do it so that when you do look back at this you will not have any regrets,