There is this girl, who I WAS pretty sure liked me. Last week she was hinting to me that she wanted to go out on a date with me, but I was slow and didn't ask her. Now, I'm kind of a cocky/funny guy (and this works well) so please don't tell me to just tell her how I feel, I really doubt this will help me much. So, yesterday, I asked her where she was going to take me this weekend, but I don't think she thought I was serious, since she said to the club (but we're in high school). I told her she had to come up with something better than that if she wanted to hang out with me, and she laughed. I won't see her again until Thursday, but I really want to do something with her this weekend. She jokingly told some friends (while I was around) that she would be taking me to prom. I turned away and heard another girl ask her if she was serious, and I looked back just in time to see her shaking her head no, as if she didn't want me to hear her. I still think she likes me, but I'm not as sure now
2006-11-01 14:46:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok dude..u can just ask her out while u and her do ur usual banters and what not..initially just joke around and stuff..then at one point, after u say stuff like where u gonna take me or whatever or she say she's gonna take u somewhere, u just look at her in the eye and say, 'no, i'm serious'..of course u need that serious look when u do that..it's just a matter of timing..might or might not work, but it's worth a try..
go get her, boy!
2006-11-01 14:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by LadyN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play up your cocky/funny side. Go ahead and get a "plan" together... where you'd like to take her for dinner, movie, whatever. Then Thursday, ask her if she's going to be the forward one and pick you up at 7:30, or if you're going to stay traditional and pick her up at 7:30.
If she says for you to pick her up... well, then you've got your answer. If she's going to be forward, well, come 7:30 you'll have your answer one way or another, and if she doesn't show, you still save face.
High school girls are fickle... to say the least. (I should know.. I WAS one...)! But when it comes down to it.. if she's talking about you to her friends, be it good or bad... proceed with caution. Rumors spread like wildfire through a high school... so try to save face as much as you can. Good luck!
2006-11-01 14:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Suzuki_Mouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, not sure I can help any. Sounds like she's giving you some mixed signals there but maybe cause she's not real sure how you really feel since you both seem to joke around with each other about the date. Gosh one of you needs to get serious about the plans. Good Luck!
2006-11-01 14:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm the old grandma type...I think she is not being nice.
Perhaps try asking her to do a specific thing (go to a movie, a dance, an arcade, ) whatever seems like a good idea and see if she says "yes".
I was always confused about what guys wanted unless one actually said "Hey Rosemary, would you like to go to a movie with me on Saturday night?"..or walk, or drive...whatever.
I needed a direct invitation.
2006-11-01 14:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by rosemary w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might not want her friends to know she likes you and thats for show but, I feel is someone likes you for you then she should be up front and tell them. She shouldn't be ashamed to be with someone she likes. Tell her your serious about the date and ask her where she wants you to take her. If she still don't give you a correct answer and teases say to her your loss and find someone that really cares and wants you in part of their life.
2006-11-01 14:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about instead of asking her where she's going to take you, tell her where you'd like to take her and make it fun and or romantic! Make sure you think about it and give her the whole plan when YOU ask her to go with you. If your good enough she'll say yes! Good Luck!
2006-11-01 14:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by Harleygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may still like you. i think she said "no" about the prom b/c it would be presumptuous on her part to assume that you'd even ask her ... how embarrassing if you were like "i wouldn't ask you." she was just protecting her ego. i'm thinking that if you want to see her this weekend and you are afraid to be direct that maybe you have to mention where you are going to be, that it's fun and if she's out with friends she should stop by and say "hi."
2006-11-01 14:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by ca belle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to say things more seriously and stop joking around so much,than maybe she'll take you more serious and think of you as more than a friend.
2006-11-01 14:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by holliela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's ******' with ya. it's the start of an iffy situation.
make an honest woman out of her!
2006-11-01 14:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur too nervous to go out alone, arrange a group thing. if not, text her!
2006-11-01 14:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by blazerGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋