Lifestyle... If I met a man who cared about his parents in their retirement years, worked hard at his job, had balance in his life and also took pride in himself, that would by far mean more to me that looks or income....
2006-11-01 14:46:22
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answered by genieejj 3
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Personality. If it clicks with mine, we are off and running. If he is dirty (physically), that is a turn off, too. Nothing is a bigger bummer than BO. Lifestyle and money go together. That is just a plus and not a major factor, although it helps. Looks matter hardly at all. I have known lots of guys who weren't all that much to look at but had great personalities. Be witty, okay in the looks department, smell good, and able to pay the bills on your own and you are way ahead of the pack.
2006-11-01 14:55:03
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answered by Slimsmom 6
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initially its the looks that grab your attention but its the personality that actually creates an attraction for me, the male could be gorgeous but a real a** and i wouldnt be attracted and the reverse.. i'm mostly attracted to someone that i can feel comfortable with a sense of humour is important.. i would be cautious of someone who is attracted to money or an extravagent lifestyle.
2006-11-01 14:45:58
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answered by So Happy!! 4
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what he says. For me that's pretty much it. I mena, the looks really DO help but they don't KEEP me. I LISTEN to what he says and if he doens't line up with me then I don't stick around. I mean, the looks can only take you so far. personality is a big factor in that. because he wont' say something that is contrary to his personality or his morals. he will in essence, tell on himself. I watch him every time we are together or he is with his friends and I am in the same room from the corner of my eye, from a distance. I observe and eavesdrop, not necessarily ont he conversation, but just for profanity and contradictions. I dont' care if he's told his mother about me. things like, other women... if we are exclusive, I WILL care about but if not then no the most important thing is MORALS. the morals are the MOST important thing to me. If he doesn't have good morals then he can't date me. it's called homework. I ask myself, does he act different with me than his friends? does he treat his friends different than the janitor? is he helpful to everyone? does he make additional work or does he HELP people? what are his goals in life? what makes him worthy of my attention? why is this man datable? does he do what he says he will do? you'll notice this isn't much different than whe I tell the teenagers posting the "does he like me questions. same song different beat. it's all the same thing. I really SHOULD post a FAQ. Money REALLY doesn't matter to me. Lifestyle.No. A man who is living in a soggy box and driving a car he has to push from behind tells me he can't manage money for ONE! how can he manage money for two? It also tells me he doesn't have a job or does not know how to best manage his resources wisely. either that or does not wish to listen to wise counsel. or does not know HOW to listen to wise counsel. that happens. as for the looks, they fade. face it babe. that gorgeous hair will fall out, the teeth can be knocked out at the next hockey match and the skin can be lost in a car accident or fire. then you aren't so pretty. and THAT is BEFORE you age. So I hope you aren't hoping to hook a wife based on your looks. As for money, some hacker can clean out your online bank account and a robber can clean out your under the mattress stash or whereever you keep your cash. You REALLY need to evaluate what is important.
the bottom line is to analyze character. what kind of character does he have. that is the MOST important thing to me.
2006-11-01 15:16:01
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answered by leeanndemon 3
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Sincerity, honesty, brains, physical fitness, humor...the usual list. Money you can always make. Looks? Most men look ok. Lifestyle? Well, yes, compatible values and outlook on life, that's important.
2006-11-01 14:48:00
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answered by ragged 3
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Lifestyle, money and then looks
2006-11-01 14:45:24
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answered by Izzy 5
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a little bit of all but his life style mostly because if he lives a descent life i would be drawn to that which means he is a good guy and looks plays a part a little to every one even if you feel your not shallow also if he has money it means you could get a little more done
2006-11-01 14:46:13
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answered by eve 2
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I used to hate the love of my life. He was a dork. Then one day he kissed me and it felt like a ton of bricks fell on my head. It had nothing to do with his money or looks or anything like that. Its all about chemistry. Trust it.
2006-11-01 14:45:52
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answered by Ade 6
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Looks then personality. Money really doesn't matter as long as he can take care of himself and is not living with his mama.
2006-11-01 14:46:07
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answered by MsT 2
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Personality first and then all of the above. The above make no sense if the individual is an oaf.
2006-11-01 14:44:34
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answered by HGS 2
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