So we were eating dinner and we were sitting sitting there at the table and we were quiet for a while cause it was akward cause i know he stole 20 dollars from me a few hours ago when i wasnt home when i came back i found the money missing and so i broke the ice at the table and i was like um honey, did you take money from my purse cause like i found 20 dollars missing and then he got mad and took the fork and growled at me as he bent a fork, i think he was trying to scare me or something, should i be scared?
2006-11-01 14:41:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes. I would be more concerned about the money, though. He's obviously dishonest. You were lucky he bent the fork instead of you. Get out of that relationship. He is bad news.
2006-11-01 14:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should be scared. Run like hell before he steals everything you have and then beats the crap out of you because you have nothing more to give. This guy is an abuser and, Baby, he don't love you. If you don't believe me, go to a shelter for abused women and ask some of those who live there what the first signs of abuse are.
If you find something attractive about this man, then you will most likely end up in the same types of relationships, time after time. These guys kill people.
2006-11-01 14:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried because these tactics are ways to control you by making YOU fear HIM. This behavior will eventually make you AFRAID to confront him about EvErYtHing. Then you will be left with a tiny little voice, in a tiny little closed heart.
Discuss this incident with him (not my accusation, just the fork incident)and decide what you will do AFTER he shows you his reaction to it.
Maybe he thought you were close enough that he could "borrow" and NOT be accused of something. He may be sensitive to being accused of things due to his past.
2006-11-01 14:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be scared, if he does not know how to control his anger better than that he may take it out on you some day and I can tell you that is not a fun place to be. I would demand he leave and if he does not give your money back call the police on him and also have him escorted off of your property.
2006-11-01 14:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Claire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two possibilities:
1) He is dishonest but at the risk of being found out, he wants to control you through intimidation. If that doesn't work, he may try to control you through abuse.
or
2) He really hates forks.
2006-11-01 14:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by firemedicgm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in a situation that can get from bad to worse. I don't know if you have feelings for him but I hope you are strong enough to realise that you are mixing with the wrong person. Don't wait for things to get really bad to run. Walk away quietly and don't get involved in a fight with him. Stay calm but walk away now.
2006-11-02 21:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by veroniki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... yea maybe alittle. i mean that could b a start to him getting alittle violent. and he's just trying to feed on ur fear. dont b scared act as if u are stronger then him. and in a way u are. i just got to be trained. ive seen people barly 5 feet tall take down a 6 foot man that had some muscle on them. anyway. if he keeps it up.. just dump him. because he will probably keep stealing and trying to scare u. and then he will probably try to challenge u. so if he trys to scare u again. i suggest u dump him
2006-11-01 15:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the fork thing and the stolen money could be warning signs of trouble ahead.. It depends on how long have you known/ been with him and how often this sort of thing happens. Be careful!!
2006-11-01 14:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Talina N 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get out!
This is a DEFINATE early sign of abuse. Get this may out of your life. He's trouble. Why stick around a guy you can't trust and is trying to scare you? There's no reason to wait around until he starts hitting you?! Get him out of your life RIGHT AWAY!
PLEASE take care of yourself. You deserve better. You should be able to trust someone not to steal from you and not to hurt you.
2006-11-01 14:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by tigglys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋