so i got dumped about two weeks ago by my g/f. i'm 28 and shes only 21. now she calls me on a regular basis again and is going to a boxing event with me on friday - i won the tickets from a local radio station which is kinda cool. she only lives about 2 miles from me so it would be no prblem for her to go home after but she told me she is going to stay at my place after the boxing. does she still want me or is this another way that women try to drive me nuts?
2006-11-01 14:14:45 · 31 answers · asked by poo hat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-01 14:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon sounds like she just wnts to be a good friend. She isnt totally over you and wont be. This really quite normal. Cuz when women say they "love" a man. They do by all their heart, soul, and mind. The mean the words "i love you" ( except for the wh***es ect) . So when she calls off. Her mind nad soul may relized the relationship is over. But the heart doesnt. Tht is the hardest thing to convence. Thus, making her body do weird thing. Like still wanting to hand with you and stay over night with. I would let go head she needs the time to heal. She needs your support maybe one day get back with you. But then again maybe not. But the thing is in the end you havea really really good friend you can trust :)
2006-11-01 22:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Spooky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't ready for something serious......... and she enjoys the convience of it. Sometime us woman are afraid of committment too. However at 21 and 28 you two maybe on different levels yet. I know I could never relate to a 21 year old guy since I am 27. Good Luck
I would go with you, and play no head games........If you lived in New Mexico
2006-11-01 22:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by JustCurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even try to beging to figure girls out mate, you'll end up crazy. Just treat it as a couple of friends going out for a fun night. If you can have fun together with no strings, then all the best to you. But if you feel confused about what she wants, just sit her down and have a heart to heart. At least that way you will know where you stand. best of luck
2006-11-01 22:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an inviation. She seems to want you back. I told my boyfriend I was taking him to prom 3 years ago as a way to get him to come back, without saying I was sorry for ending the relationship. Pride thing. We have been together since then and only later did I admit I really wanted him back and that was the reason I invited him.
2006-11-01 22:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what you want and do that.
If you are going to wait for other people to decide how your life is going to go then you'll be unhappy forever.
If you like the idea of her hanging around like this then that's good, keep it up. If you don't then say "This is driving me a bit nuts. We need to get back together or make a clean break."
Your call.
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2006-11-01 22:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by jan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were the events that led up to her dumping you? i think she still wants you, maybe dumping you was all about drawing attention to some issues which she now thinks you guys have resolved or hope to resolve. Talk with her... best of luck
2006-11-01 22:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by model-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her freedom plus the advantages of stringing you along. It sucks...but it's true. Honestly, I wouldn't take her to the fight. Most likely you will both end of having sex after the event and YOU will start to question the relationship. I have a solution to your problem...take me instead! I won't have to stay the night and I won't drive you nuts! Agreed?
2006-11-01 22:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is playing games with you and you are definitely falling for it. I would let her know that it is not ok to stay at your place after wards since you two are no longer together. Sometimes you have to look out for yourself and not fall into false hope. Good luck!
2006-11-01 22:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insane! Taking you for granted! Maybe for a one night stand yes... but long term.. you have to search for the answer youself, Will she play with your heart again? or is it just because she is alone and want someone to accompany her?
as yourself "Why She dump you at the First Place" ?????????
2006-11-01 22:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by gerald j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, she does not want to let go, even though she broke up with you, she still wants tobe with you.
It may be her way of trying to get you to marry her, if that topic came up and was a result of the break up.
All chicks want to get married sometime.
2006-11-01 22:18:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋