I'm so tired of being the fall back plan. I'm always here for him..He's cheated and I still dealt with him, I've tried to be whatever support he needs. BUT that muhfuka lies and cheats and I'm sooo ***** tired of it. I want him to stay in my life but I can't stand the deceite. I told him to leave me alone...and usually he will until...he wants to contact me ,so how do I handle it when he calls?He says he loves me...and no matter what he wants me in his life...He tries to get me pregnant...and I get sooo confused. I'm not stupid I know when a man is playing you. I've been around with him 4 about 3 yrs. I c what his actions say. That is... he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too...he admitted it himself...aint that some ****!? He says he doesn't want to let me go..he wants me by his side. I might be pregnant...now what?!
2006-11-01 14:14:05 · 8 answers · asked by German_Chocolate20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want him to recognize what he has...ok let's see: he has a woman that he can lie to, cheat on, try to get pregnant, and he can always have her back whenever he wants...he does realize what he has (a fool) and that's why he doesn't change. In order for him to recognize what he has or what you want him to think that he has, you have to change. Stop accepting his behavior. Let him know that you value yourself and cut him off completely. If he tries to contact you get your number changed. Don't be his fool anymore. I'm not trying to put you down, I'm just telling you what I had to do myself. We teach people how to treat us by what we allow.
2006-11-01 14:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by MsT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 04:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your age, but if I had to guess just by the things you are saying, I would guess you are very young... You knew and know the score yet were willing to put up with this nonesense, and now you are bringing another human, a innocent baby into this mess.... and you have to ask *now what* ?? this kind of story makes me so angry I sometimes wish I could shake the ppl who write this stuff...... Life is NOT a game, and to bring a baby into it, that nether parent is ready to have, or care for, is just mind blowing...... God bless
2006-11-01 14:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat. my bf comes back when he is threw running the streets. i just put my foot down and told him to stay where hes at. i was dating him for 2 1/2 yrs so i know how tired you are. i know how hard it is to love someone and hate to leave. but you have to cuz it wont get better. be very cautious. so what if you are pregnant, keep the baby and tell him to get lost. im a single parent of three . we have to be strong women cuz thats what men like. so tell where to go and hopefully he'll change. someone on yahoo told me put your foot down and see if he changes in 30 days if not you know what to do. even god gives you 30 to moarn but after that its time to move on and live.
2006-11-01 14:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i dont think that he is worth it. Not to be rude but i think he is a jacka**. I'm suprised that you are still talking to him. But i guess old habbits die hard. If i was you i would tell him that you arent going to play his little games and just forget about him. Since he has cheated on you he will do it again, once you find one rat there is 50 more. If your pregnant, then i think you would be better off without him. But thats really up to you.
2006-11-01 14:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this story sounds like my life with my childhood sweetheart. I put up with this crap for 10 years and finally I left, two kids later. Do you really want to throw away 10 years of your life? He'll never respect you. Get out while you can.
2006-11-01 14:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to get lost and if u r pregnant well, honey single women do it every day....you can too....just let him know either way pregnant or not, its over and to never call and come back around but you have to stick to your guns and dont let him come back ever its the best for you and possibly tha baby...good luck
2006-11-01 14:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a idiot. if you care about yourself
2006-11-01 14:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by luap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋