So there is this girl, and all the guys like me(me included) do you think she cares anything other then looks? And were in middle school. I think she's kinda of a whore, but i dont know, my sister says she's really nice. And I've had the feeling she likes me, there arent really any hints, but I just feel like it. I have the feeling she likes me. But I actully wnat a girl that likes me for who I am, is this possible in middle school? And she sometimes looks at me. How do you know if a girl likes u?
2006-11-01 13:49:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After reading some of your posts, yes I do like her. She's about my height, she's mexican. She has a nice..errr....butt? And her hair and face are really nice. She also has braces, which is really cute.She's pretty popular tho, so I just have the feeling she might be a whore or something. As for myself, I don't know if I'm that good looking, I'm half chinese, and half white, but everyone thinks im ether mexican, or just plain white. I'm 5'1 1/2 or 5'2 and I'm 105.5 pounds. My head is a little big, but it's barely noticeable. I have braces, I just don't know...
2006-11-01 14:05:52 · update #1
no. in middle school and high school, the only thing girls are worried about is if the guy they like is a cool guy to have a crush on. they're worried about what their friends think about the guys they like. some high school and mostly in college is where people start getting beyond looks.
2006-11-01 13:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. If she is a nice girl, then yes. But you really shouldnt waste your time on a middle school whore. Chances are shell get pregnant in less than a year and you will be lucky one to say you caught the clap from her. Just a bit of advice.
2006-11-01 21:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by AliciaK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually girls from grade 7-10/11 usually go for looks.. those are the ones who always want status...
Only if they knew in college is so much different... your status means **** then... Most respectable/respected girls will look pass your appearance since it can be worked on... ex: your "overweight" not obese but overweight.. that can be easily solved... Girls should understand most overweight guys have no reason and no confidence to lose weight...
And yes this is true... The source is from my experience...
Grade 8 i left all my friends to go to a new school
I weighed 135 in grade 8 then grade 9 was 155 grade 10 195 11 was 250
Now i am back down to 210, but i am also a snowboarder and also I "box" casually... I did this all my self..
Girls want someone who takes care of them selves... and most big guys do..I control my eating and i eat alot of healthy food.. i also work out.. My metabolism is so low ...
But yea dont wry. just talk to her.. since you got a sister it would be so much easier to get to know her.
2006-11-01 21:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can, but getting past looks is about maturity and most people who are school age just aren't that mature. If she can, she looks for guy who is different than the rest much like adults do with each other.
Please realize you are in middle school and looks and popularity are most important to kids.
You must know, and millions of us can tell you, someone can be crazy about you today, and tomorrow they like someone else. Happens to adults, just way more complicated. So, my advice is don't get too emotional play it cool.
Yes she likes you, she just hasn't formed the skills yet to really know how to tell you.
Give yourself a chance to be a kid. You have plenty of time to worry about this kind of stuff.
Hang out with your buddies, play some sports.
Hang in there kiddo, don't get so serious...
2006-11-01 22:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by indepwman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really at my school, in fact, everyone is nice, looks kinda count, but at my school we've known each other for ever, (When I was in diapers, I was best friends with who is now, the most popular boy in school) but he's not popular cuz he's rich or has nice things or wears abercrombie (we all do that) it's cause he's nice! Thats how it's like at my school.
2006-11-01 22:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say, " Go for it." when i was in middle school i like this guy and i wanted to go out with him to but i never ask...that's the stuiped thing i ever did, and then we went to high school and still we didn't go out and then he's in coolege and i was going to ask him even if the answer was "i just like you as a friend" i still wanted to know what he would say, and now he is in the navy and he won't come back till next year....i didn't get to ask.....i'm trying not to do anything that stupied anymore....i have a boyf now and i love him very much....i don't think me and the other guy is going to ever have a chance....so good luck....
2006-11-01 21:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by trinh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girls in middle school mainly just look for your looks, do you have abs, do you have blue eyes, but there is one thing a girl always NO MATTER WHAT LOOKS FOR…… is if the guy is funny and if he knows how to treat a girl the right wayy!!!!
2014-02-17 09:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't think it is. people are just so conceited that all they care about is whether their boyfriend/girlfriend is "hot". well MOST of the time, the "hot" people are ones you don't want anyway...cause all they care about is the popularity.
i'd say wait till the middle of high school to date. i'm a sophomore and have never had a boyfriend. besides, it's better to know exactly who you are and what you want in a relationship before you start one with someone...
idk. just my opinion.
2006-11-03 23:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in middle school,and I look for personality,manners and character,as well as looks.
sometimes if the girl is desperate,you can tell if she likes you or not. and yes,its possible to find a girl who likes you for who you are in middle school.
2006-11-01 21:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by vball.gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really dont know im in the middle school too and yeah there is gurls in my school that are really bad and just go for the guys tat are cute or popular it gets me mad that they will go out wit the stupidest guy or the meanes just cause there cute and i dont think this is helping well if you think that she like you why dont you ask her or something?!?!?!?
2006-11-01 21:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by 12934 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋