So I like this guy in my class. He's in all of my classes except PhysEd/Health(there are sep. male/female classes) and Music.
He looks at me a lot and smiles at me sometimes.
A few days ago,we were watching a move in class,and he moved his chair right in front of my desk so he could get a better view.
WE ARE BOTH REALLY REALLY REALLY SHY.
How do I tell him I like him?How do I find out for sure if he likes me?
Plz dont say that I should get a friend to ask for me,or that I should tell him straight o his face,bcuz a girl did that last year and ended up heartbroken and embarassed.
And if you say to write a note,what do I say in it? and what if he says no?
What can I talk to him about,and when(we have different groups of friends,and both of us are always with a friend)??
please help......ASAP.
2006-11-01 13:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by vball.gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 12 years old-in grade 7.
2006-11-01 13:50:24 · update #1
im nevr alone with him-we always have at least one friend.
i dunno how to be friends with him.all of my griends are girls,and they will think im weird,cuz they're not interested in guys yet.
2006-11-01 13:56:00 · update #2
If you are both shy, you're in a tough situation.
Shy types often won't make a move until they're certain their subject will accept them (my past experience).
They are typically intelligent, however (+)!
One of you has to show the initiative.
Casually ssk him for help with some homework/classwork.
As you become more comfortable conversing, ask questions about him (all that jazz).
I (and most others) don't recommend a note from either gender to either - it keeps you shy and is seemingly cowardly (not an offense).
Build up conversation until you become friends, but don't wait too long to ask him (or for him to ask you) because it will seem like an awkward proposal among good friends.
lol - your friends aren't interested in guys yet!
They're either immature or hiding it from you!
Anyways,
Best wishes ;)
2006-11-01 13:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by teh_popezorz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if u're afraid of rejection, then forget about it....lol......when u want something, u gotta risk it, if not u will never know what's the result....what if it's wonderful??? if u don't, at least u've tried.....don't be so self'conscious.....no one will blame u for that... :) look for signs like frequent eye'contacts (secretly), shy smiles when hearing your name, dare not look into your eyes when u gaze at him,etc.....there's no need to write a note to him if u've no idea.....just gather your courages n' talk to him casually like a simple n' friendly 'hi' or 'hey, i've heard that u like music, i like it ,too.....can we be friends???' (in this way, even u both have a friend beside u, u won't get too nervous).... when later u two get close enough, u'll feel more comfortable telling him the truth...good luck!!!!!
2006-11-01 13:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try andd talk to him more and be come his friend joke around with him then if he likes you you'll find out by the way he acts
It may take longer but it's better because you can learn about him easier and it's easier to become boyfriends when you're already friends.
2006-11-01 13:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by maxxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you are felling. you say not to tell you this but listen anyways. tell him in some way, or maybe ask him to do something with you and when you are alone with him, ask him. it sounds like he feels the same way about you. give it a shot. i used to be really shy. i loved this guy. but i didn't know how to tell him. i found out that he like me but it was to late. now i go to a different school and ill never know what could have happened. you have to take a risk.
2006-11-01 13:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by HANNAH S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that is so cute... I mean it. Well you may be shy but you're his friend right? so you should just try to talk as normal as possible. And he likes you that you can be sure of just don't do anything rash. Take it easy and you'll see when he's ready.
2006-11-01 13:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe don't tell him yet, if ur both really shy them u probably don't know each other very well yet, so be his friend first. then once u know what he's like, decide which way to tell him is best.
2006-11-01 13:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by sailornika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus stare at him for a second, look deep into his eyes
or wink at him, that shows that you definatly like him
or when you two are walking somewhere put your arm around him n smile
2006-11-01 13:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋