Well, the place where i live in is really...what's the word for it...ghetto, i guess? My godsis and I have played the wonderful game of dating, but only came up with wannabe tough hoodrats instead of REAL guys who aren't all into the "ghetto" theme. I personally don't know what to do anymore. I mean, it's not really me. It's my godsis. She's been dating these superficial jerks and she's been getting hurt each time. I thought about putting her on one of those dating websites, but the only one i know of is E-spin-the-bottle.com. I've been on that site before and it's really just hyped up to make it seem good. Now i usually wouldn't help my sisters or cousins with dating, but my godsis is the only one i know who actually likes to listen to me. So i don't want to let her down. So if anyone has any suggestions for some safe dating websites for TEENS or some real-world advice, that would be great.
Btw, she and i are homeschooled so i can't hook her up with someone from a school...
2006-11-01 13:46:18 · 7 answers · asked by Child of Coal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The firs guy who posted: Thanks for the offer, but your friends are probably too old for her, anyway. Also, you probably live miles away from here. Thanks, though.
2006-11-01 13:55:11 · update #1
I think your best advice to her would be to only date casually at this age (because guys are twice as stupid at your age, and get slightly better as they age) - tell her not to get emotionally attached to them. She should just be browsing, and getting to know what she likes and dislikes - having fun. When you go to college, there will be guys there that are not into the whole "ghetto" thing and will be relationship-worthy.
I know it sounds bad, but she should pretty much give up all hope of finding a good relationship at this point in life, and just wait until college where there will be a better pool of guys to choose from.
2006-11-01 13:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
finding a safe site for female teens to meet someone on line is crazy, dangerous. do you not whatch tv. anyway hope you all can move to a little better nieghborhood. get an education, very important, if high school or less you may live there for a long time with many kids, comunity college or trade school, dont depend on the hoodrats to do anything except live off there women and moms, get your selfs out of that situation dont depend on idiots to do it for you. gl.
2006-11-01 21:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by donna r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teens looking for a BF on-line are actually talking to some 40+ year old perv. Just chill out dating is the last thing you should be concerned with at your age. Don't make it a priority if it happens it happens. Be like me, don't go looking for it.... let it come to you. :-)
2006-11-01 21:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Popcorn Playa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of Internet dating, how about take her to church, that's a great place to meet REAL guys as you mentioned....
2006-11-01 21:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound to young to be thinking aBout boyfriends try being a kid and leave the grown up stuff till your grown up there is plenty of time for boys when your older
2006-11-01 21:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about guys, concentrate on yourself and they will find you. Even if you want them to or not.
2006-11-01 21:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is she...i have friends...believe me they are not ghetto...they are really responsable...they are not T.I wannabes
2006-11-01 21:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by Darksied 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋