pretty much I've known this girl for a month now and we've done stuff like go to homecoming together and she asked me to this dinner thing last weekend. sometimes it seems like she has feelings for me and other times it doesnt. i want to date this girl, but it seems right now like we're stuck between being friends and a relationship, so would it be best for me to wait this out and see which direction this goes or should i just make a move now? i just dont want to make things wierd between us (if she were to say no), thats really my only concern, because I enjoy her friendship.
2006-11-01 13:36:19 · 9 answers · asked by stickyfingaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should take action to show you like her and want her to be girlfriend.
The feeling will cold down when time pass by.
Even if she reject, friend ship still able to maintain. You can always tell you get wrong signal so you act wrongly.
If you dun act now, you might regret in your future time.
2006-11-01 13:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Vangelis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound eminently sensible and mature. The reason it seems that sometimes she has feelings for you and sometimes she doesn't is exactly the same reason that you've asked this question here - it's only been a month and you're not sure what to do. Neither is she!
Take it easy. You are definitely on a winner because you enjoy her friendship and she obviously enjoys yours (she asked you to the 'dinner thing' last weekend).
Be happy. This sounds like a relationship that is going somewhere. Don't push it. Enjoy it!
2006-11-01 21:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most mature thing you can do is don't mess with what you have. You both are in high school it sounds like and you really should be focusing on school and not dating. Trust me, you will have plenty of time for that after high school. You have a great friend in her, and the one thing I have learned over the years is that if it is meant to evolve it wil. You have to let it happen. If you put her in an awkward position she may not be your friend any longer and then you will have lost something great.
2006-11-01 21:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had two of my close guy friends ask me out, and I said no, but we're still friends and things haven't changed. It was weird at first, but only for a week or so. I'd say ask her out, especially because it sounds like you've been kind of dating for a while. Good luck :)
2006-11-01 21:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by waiting4winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, female here, I think the best thing between two people is a strong friendship. If the romance is meant to happen it will on its own. "Lust is easy, Love is hard, Like is most important." Carl Reiner
So I think you should enjoy her friendship and relax.
2006-11-01 21:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by CharlieandPichu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just be honest and tell her just what you have just told us . That way it is her choice weather to get more into the relationship or just be friends, or just to take things slow,
This way you will know where you stand in all this
I hope this helps may God bless you
2006-11-01 21:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move now, before someone else does.. and you lose her. Dont keep waiting like i did, you'll regret it big time bro, trust me, now my gurl's going out with my friend, can't blame him, cuz he made a move
2006-11-01 21:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone u love em b4 u lose em
2006-11-01 21:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by lolypop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, and if she doesn´t agree with you than she wasn´t worth it
2006-11-01 21:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by PaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋