So my ex dumped me two months ago. When she dumped me she said that she really hoped we could be friends and still talk and email. I am not sure if she said that to be nice or really meant it, but I told her that I could not be friends becuase I needed time to get over her. I knew if I did try to be friends with her right after the break up, it would be really awkward and we would wind up hating eachother. So anyway I have not talked to her in two months and her 30th bday is coming up. I am over her completely, but I was wondering if it would be a good idea just to send a quick txt message wishing her a happy 30th birthday?
2006-11-01 13:30:11 · 17 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Na just forget about her she dumped you so just move on. If you are really over her then prove it. And she'll see it too and who knows it might just burn her a** when she sees that you are over her.
2006-11-01 13:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Popcorn Playa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, that would be a sweet thing to do as long as you do what you're saying you will, and keep it quick and to the point. otherwise, she might get the idea you want her back. it's great when two people can be friends after a break-up, just don't spend too much time on her, it could get in the way of meeting a girl who's right for you!
hope things turn out good for you!
2006-11-01 13:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sweet, but she can take it two ways... either as "Oh, he remembered my birthday! That's sweet of him!" or as "He should have somebody else by now! He shouldn't be bothering me anymore! That's why were exs!"
I think you should do it! I mean...nothings wrong with that! I still said happy birthday when i saw my ex... and he was suprized that i remembered and he replied by saying thank you!
Doesn't hurt to try!
2006-11-01 13:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by alliebayla13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's okay for you send her a text message wishing her a Happy birthday,but just emphasize on the main point{birthday}.
2006-11-01 13:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be turning 30 November6 and I'll tell you go ahead. take a chance she will probably appreciate it. I know I get a little depressed to know I'm turning 30 this year. Even thought she quit the relationship doesn't mean you have to forget about her.
2006-11-04 14:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by greatwords 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course. It's a great way to maintain unpretencious contact. You'll feel better & so may she. It will also make a chance meeting less awkward.
2006-11-01 13:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Diablo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a great idea, but keep it friendy, 2 show her that u have moved on, and wish 2 b friends, or at least aquantances
<3
2006-11-01 13:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by goldfshhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should, it shows that because of that relationship you have matured and you can keep on moving with your life. also if you ever need a favor its always good to have people who you can talk to or txt.
2006-11-01 13:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by tina turner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds gay. imagine about it. Hes nvr with women. continually with men. Doesnt want women. And certainly hunny he doesnt seem too interested in you. Youre smothering him. go away him on my own. Im sorry yet its the actuality
2016-12-05 10:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that question. think to yourself... would she be happy to get a txt msg from you now?
also, it is one thing to be casual acquittances with someone; it is another thing to be friends.
2006-11-01 13:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by IfULookdAzGudAzMeUdBeatOffALot2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋