I have feelings for this girl... We've known each other for several years. She is on and off again with this other guy for the past 2 years. During the off times we do stuff and have a good time together. When I ask her where things are at with this relationship with this other guy, she just says it is "complicated" and nothing further. He treats her terrible and her parents even told him that he doesn't deserve their daughter. Now I hear that she is going on a weekend getaway with him, but when I ask her what she is doing this weekend she just says she is going away with some friends. She doesn't even tell me that she is doing stuff with him! Is she just trying not to hurt me or what's the deal? I'm open to anyone's comments/advice on the situation.
I should also mention that after her parents told him that he didn't deserve her he has been calling her constantly. She overlooks the fact that they had to tell him to do stuff with her and call her.
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2006-11-01 13:29:20 · 8 answers · asked by Chuck J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when girls say that, its for real, they don't know how they feel, they have somewhat of an idea that it IS bad for them, but they like it too....like she said, it's just hard.
Sometimes it takes a guy a slap in the face to get him to see what the hell is going on. I would just be the guy that she comes back to, who was comforting her the entire time.
2006-11-01 13:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Aria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. In a few years he will be out of her life and stuck with some other jerk and you will have found someone better for yourself. You may get so lucky down the road as to have her say she did not recognize what she could have had with you when she had the chance. It feels really good to hear that.
2006-11-01 13:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well girls say things are complicated for two reasons
one she doesn't feel like trying to explain her relationship with this guy to everyone
and two it probably really is too complicated for her to comprehend with my ex i used to always tell people it was just too complicated and it sounded like about the same relationship that she has with him
we went out for a few months then we broke it off but still fooled around for a while after
and he just kept hurtin me
i have been without him for six months now and i have never been better
sooner or later she will realize this guy isn't right for her and will break it off
as for why she keeps lying to you
she may not want to hurt you or ruin the little thing you guys have when they are off again
just hold off on hookin up with her when they are off again see if that might make a difference
2006-11-01 13:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by bebegirl049 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows it's a bad situation. Seriously, you should probably just walk away. You cannot save someone who doesn't want saved.
2006-11-01 13:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was probably trying not to hurt you or have you feel sad about the getaway.
she is most likely confused about everything. she knows what she's doing.. she just doesn't understand why.
2006-11-01 13:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by aliseeah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women like to be treated like ****. This only means one thing DRAMA. Get away far away she'll break your heart
2006-11-01 13:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't appreciate your curiousity in her affairs, which is why she gives you the bland, one word answer.
She is trying to work ourt what to do about him, and she is not really interested in you, I suspect.
Sorry.
2006-11-01 13:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋