wut do guys real think about a girl that chooses to be a virgin until marrage? and that women's not bad looking maybe pretty or hot? tell me and try to keep it somewut clean oh and she's not a nerd or dumb or prepy or high maitianence ask 4 more info if needed
be honest
2006-11-01 13:15:23 · 23 answers · asked by Skye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes this girl is me im 16 5'4" 114lbs
2006-11-01 13:22:32 · update #1
not annerexic or belemic just a natural same easy to tone and tan body i swear im not making any of this up
2006-11-01 13:30:11 · update #2
some thing to add im a goth/emo/rocker/normal....
is this a prob with guys?
2006-11-01 13:32:44 · update #3
im not asking because i hav a guy and wonder about htis cuz of thiss or anything i am single aat the time i just want to kno wat to expect a guy to think this is great pleaz con't all these answers r great & u get points win win eh?
2006-11-01 13:40:36 · update #4
i choose this not for religious resonsons AT ALL its all respect and moral
2006-11-01 13:42:45 · update #5
Honestly, i dont have a problem with that,
personally for me, what ever she chooses i will go with =]
2006-11-01 13:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by TastelessFish 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Saving yourself until marriage is a great way to know that he is really committed to the relationship. It's easy to tell apart the people who want to just get in your pants and those who want to have a great life and live happily with you. It does have some bad parts though, some guys would goto the extend of staying with you for the longest time and not have any intentions of staying with you once a child is born.
About looks. Looks are something that the media portrays as something important. Most guys would just look at it and say "Yeah, looks are everything." Well, personally, I look for a woman who has a great personality and doesn't have that anorexic look that half the women today have. This is a good thing to go by, because the people you see at school or at work or even on TV try to make it as if their life is perfect, but they are suffering. Keep this in mind, and I hope you make the right decision ;].
2006-11-01 13:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a good thing. But I've heard it before. Seeing is believing. Well I just gotta say this, I think sex is an important part of a relationship, its not everything but it keeps me from looking somewhere else. But if she really is the "real deal" I think it is a big deal. It shows that she has a great deal of self respect. It puts the "sacred" meaning back in marriage. But I'm never getting married so I would have to pass.
2006-11-01 13:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Popcorn Playa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Skye: A GREAT question ! Well; it depends on wether or not, he loves you. If he loves you, he will be thoughtful and considerate of what your values are and therefore, WAIT. On the other side of the question, supposing he doesn't love you but wants to only, get into your panties, he will get angry and tell you anything. The first advantage of a guy, who loves you is this. You won't have to worry about him breaking up with you. another advantage is you won't have to worry about STD being transferred to you nor becoming pregnant. You will have the satisfaction of knowing he really loves you because he is not pressuring you into "doing it". Remember; if you are "hot" to trot and very pretty, you will have the "wolves" at your door. YOU can be selective with who you go with and don't have to put up with "jack-be-nimble ... jack-be-quick" type of guy. There are lots of jerks out there waiting to use the first girl who is stupid enough to go with them. It all "boils" down to RESPECT and true love - not lust. Good luck to ya, Skye !!!!
2006-11-01 13:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest. I hive a girlfriend that she thank the some way. And i respect her for that because if u thank about it.thats how the world should be. And it's say in the bible that we should love not lust... But opinions r like a** holes every body gots 1. am i right i right
2006-11-01 13:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by am_solf_king_we_tod_it_420 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it takes a very special guy to life up to what your friend has planned for her life. i think its really good and ok. she will find that special person to give all her love, there are a lot of guys that want to get a virgin so they can brag. its all b/s because a girl like that is hard to find and meet. there is nothing wrong with not being a virgin either. we all live different lives with different wants and needs, anyway tell her yea and good luck.
2006-11-01 13:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by donna r 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe that any one who chooses to wait untill marrige before consenting to anything sexual is both honorable and wonderfull!!! it would save the world a lot of hardship if all people would do the same. I feel that anyone with strong morals is an example to those who are weaker. so if this girl is you I pray you maintain your stand. thanks for letting people know there are still those out there that follow the word of God. bless ya
2006-11-01 13:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being virgin is common these days amongst boys as well as gals before marriage. According to a survey done by news channel CNBC more than 80% of gals have sex before marriage and about 70% of them think it is not wrong. So in other words we have to move with the world and also change accordingly
2006-11-01 13:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rajkumar 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is about principle, not about the looking. Man would be happy if they know their wife is virgin and vice verse. It prove that they are clean, free from sex disease.....
Now a day, not many people want to keep the virginity up till their marriage, as most want to enjoy as they want... and sex is one of the things they look forward for enjoying....... keep until after marriage..... is not the priority and things they r care
2006-11-01 13:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by Vangelis 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not that this is how I think, but in general, the turn off is that most men aren't looking for a girl to settle down with. What happens is they end up dating someone and it turns into someone they want to settle down with. The problem is most guys won't stay interested in a girl they aren't screwing long enough to come to that decision with a girl they can't sleep with because the urge to want to have sex will drive them into the arms of someone else.
2006-11-01 13:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by mrmanseven 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i can only answer the first sentence, the rest i have a hard time assembling the sentences.... of course, it's like heaven if i get to marry a girl and find out she still a virgin on our honeymoon night.
2006-11-01 13:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by gringo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋