I'm a humble college freshman. I can't do one night stands or anything like that and would rather have a stable relationship more than anything else. So what do girls look for when trying to have a stable relationship?
If anyone answers 'a sense of humor' then I am screwed.
2006-11-01 13:14:38 · 12 answers · asked by ozarugold51 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, sounds like you have a sense of humor to me :-)
All you can do is be yourself. Girls who date fake guys realise it very quickly and then the relationship is over, no matter how much you have in common.
What I look for, and have found, is someone who is honest about who he is. Someone who is open and can talk about anything and will talk. So many men out there don't know how to carry on a conversation.
2006-11-01 13:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls look for the personality of the guy in question. Good personality, most likely a good relationship. Not so good personality, most likely a not so good relationship. We also look for people we can count on. If the relationship becomes really serious, we usually want 2 be able 2 trust the guy not like a friend would, but more than that. We find it hard 2 be in relationships where the guy won't or doesn't support us and help us out.
2006-11-01 13:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Clearbrook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. well a sense of humor wouldnt hurt but the thing girls look for in a stable relationship is a guy who is trustworthy. cant have a stable relationship if ur constantly worrying about the person cheating on u.
2006-11-01 13:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by SamE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the girl. You can't change yourself, so why does it matter what they look for? What you need to do is be careful what YOU look for. Don't choose girls just based on looks. If you want a stable relationship you need to look for a girl who doesn't party a lot, and is caring and faithful. Someone who has self-confidence without flirting with 100s of guys to affirm herself. Someone who has enough inner-strength to be monogamous during college years. Good luck.
2006-11-01 13:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by suire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must find this person attractive and think in your mind that you want to be with them for a long time before you even think about a lasting situation.
next you should be trustworthy. your girlfriend would hate to find out that you slept with her friend or even someone else.....
Listen to her. When a she talks to you dont pretend your listening. girls like to feel comfortable around their boyfriends. be interested or at least try to be....more than likely she is looking for good advice or someone to gossip with.
Care about her. dont let her hurt herself by putting herself down. Tell her shes beautiful every chance you get and tell her why she is so beautifull.....not just on the outside but on the inside too.
If she does something that makes you happy tell her. Make her feel good about what she did
look her in the eyes when you talk to her, smile a lot, and hold her hand or hug her. i know i love hugs.
be kind. dont make fun of her....girls are easy to offend.
pay attention to her. when she wants to be with you, let her be with you.
do anything you can to see her just for a little bit
send her flowers or a letter or a card just because its tuesday
let her know everyday how much she loves you
put out..................
trust her. dont accuse her of wrong doings too much.
help out. if it looks like she could use some assistance, then help her.
love her more than you love yourself.
dont expect too much. believe her when she tells you something......treat her like you treat your best friend.....
2006-11-01 13:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Whats your problem? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for most women but for me I want a guy who has respect for women. One who is loving and who can show emotion. A man who works and sees a relationship as 5o 5o. Someone who puts family first.
2006-11-01 13:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stability,honesty.
2006-11-01 13:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a priss until you find a guy worthy of keeping around for a while. Don't forget that people want most what they can't have! Don't be a hoe. :)
2006-11-01 13:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by the alpha princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I would want my guy to be a passionate, reliable, honest and not a flirt.
2006-11-01 13:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋