Okay. We have flirted for like 6 months. He finally makes a move and we make out for like 20 minutes. No sex, but only because there isn't enough time. We talk and get along great, make out again, and again, not enough time to go all the way. Then one day he says "you are beautiful, and I like you as a person, as well as wanting you." The next time we see each other is after a few weeks, because of our schedules and he says "My feelings for you haven't changed." He says he can't kiss me bcuz he is sick, but still hugs me and holds me close for a while. He always has the sweetest things to say to me and looks deep into my eyes when we are talking. It feels very sincere, but I am afraid to be gotten by a player, because his compliments to me are always about my physical appearence...
What do you think... Does it seem real??
Do I let my gaurd down, or proceed with caution??
2006-11-01 12:59:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a player 2 me. I would proceed with caution because u never know what the guys thoughts could be. Be careful, there are a lot of guys out there that are like that and all they want is an intimate relationship. Nothing serious is on their minds at the time. If all he ever comments on is your looks, he's probably go'in for more than just a make out session. The choice is all yours. U can let your guard down or proceed with caution. Just be ready for whatever consequences come along.
2006-11-01 13:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Clearbrook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you began your 2nd sentence with, "there's this guy..." Well, a 40 year old who was married and then divorced is not a guy, he's a man and he also sounds like a pervert. He's a man, twice your age, he keeps touching you and making inappropriate comments. No, you're not reading too much into it, he's flirting with you and seeing how far you'll let him go. If you want to put an end to it then go ahead. If he touches your shoulder, then shrug him off. If he calls you sweetie or darling just smile and politely say, "my name isn't sweetie, it's ....." People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If you let him take advantage of you, he probably will!
2016-05-23 09:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, but you have led him to think, you are the one who wants him into your pants.
I mean a serious relationship starts with talkin, dating, and then the make out.
Even so, he might be serious, couse a guy who just wants sex, might leave if he does not get some on the second oportunity
2006-11-01 13:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful, seems like he is playing the game that he is real...to early for relations, get to know each other and be friends first....
2006-11-01 13:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by walterknowsall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, but what the hell? if it goes down everything has to end eventually
2006-11-01 13:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dajmta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋