well im like a Fat girl but you know I have alot of friends that boys and I have a lot of freinds that are girls and me and the boys are cool but i cant seem to find a guy. Is it beacuse im fat or what i ask my family am i atractive girl and they say yes but you knwo peole should likeme cause of my personality beacuse I have a great one.....................so wuts the deal?
2006-11-01 12:58:52 · 26 answers · asked by feelfree 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, just talk to the boys more..
i gaurantee that someone likes you hes just to shy to tell you =]
2006-11-01 13:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by TastelessFish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you're fat then you probably have confidence problems and feel insecure. This comes across whether you know it or not. You can of course diet down to a level you feel is appropriate but more importantly you must be confident in who you are. Be confident and self assured when dealing with boys. Know that you are nice, pretty, Witty, whatever characterizes your personality. Smile, accentuate your assets what ever they may be (smart, tall, nice eyes, etc.) dress in clothes that you feel make you look best. In the end know that you are a gift and that there is someone who will truly cherish you and eventually you'll meet that person. The physical thing matters with teens. Right now skin and bones is in and teens can be heavily influenced by peer pressure. That means that one of your friends may be very interested in you but won't date you because he might be criticized because of your weight issue. Once again, you can diet it away without too much trouble.
Good luck and remember you are a special unique gift and you get to choose who deserves the pleasure of your company.
2006-11-01 21:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by white_yack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depending on how old you are, your physical appearance will play a large role in whether males are attracted to you. This is a large problem in high school since image and attractiveness are closely tied to pop-culture. As you get older, you'll find that personality traits do play a much larger role in your ability to attract a mate.
Keep this in mind - always believe you are beautiful and always remain confident. Never let anyone or anything let you believe otherwise. Even if men don't find you attractive now, keep your head up and remain confident. As you get older men will become very responsive to confidence and a positive self-image.
2006-11-01 21:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by nljth123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're bring up is a very complicated situation. Personality is what makes a relationship work and it's also the hardest thing to teach/learn. So you have that going for you. However, my fiance and I firmly believe that there has to be physical attrativeness for it to work out. Yes, big people can be very beautiful.
Now it depends on the person you are seeking. All guys are different. But from a purely health standpoint xtra weight is never good. Yes, guys tend to be attracted to slimmer girls. My fiance is 5'4" and weighs just over 100 lbs. But it's not her size that as important as her ambition. She wants to run a marathon and as a runner who aspires to complete the distance that is a huge turn on.
2006-11-01 22:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by dtshaff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A big thing to persuade a certain person to start to like you, try to show your beauty every time you are close to him. Guys love good-looking, confident ladies. Most if not all guys don't want to be near a woman that complains and whines about everything, instead they love to be around someone that is relaxed and upbeat. If you are wanting to build the foundation for a serious relationship, be interested about his hobbies. Being flirty is a requirement. Make sure you laugh a lot.
2014-05-30 16:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it, but a lot of guys don't like girls that are downright fat. realistically you probably are a cool, fun person, but most men like THICK women (at least Black men), but not fat women. They probably find it hard to look past your weight. Try to go on a diet. That way you'll feel better about yourself, and men will probably be more attracted to you. Otherwise try to find a man that loves BBW (Big, beatiful women)
Best wishes
2006-11-01 21:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, i know it sounds stupid > But be yourself. Most guys can agree with me that more men like girls who arent slutty and dont wear to much makeup. Fat doesnt matter. The bigger then women the nicer.
Good Luck
2006-11-01 21:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by [?] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking its ok to be fat. You can still accept yourself but turn your frustration into motivation to lose weight. It pretty much boils down to this: you probably feel so comfortable blaming others for not liking your weight that you can justify being lazy and eating too much.
2006-11-01 21:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by furshluginer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i saposs it depends on how fat no one likes a cow but I have known some girls who are a little chubby and are still atractive, dressnicely and be nice to the boys.
2006-11-01 21:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but they should like you for your personality, not your looks! For example, if you are a hot girl, but you have a bad personality, guys won't like you that much even though you are pretty or hot it won't work out because there's no chemistry. But it's the inside that counts! Hope I helped!
2006-11-01 21:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You people need to be nice, and guys, don't even get me started. Your world is controlled by your hormones and nothing else! (<---to the guys) Being overweight isn't always your fault. And if a guy is worth it, he will accept you for who you are. You know, the type of guy with a brain that's in use. Hold your head up high and be proud of yourself! Remember, guys don't mature as fast as us girls!
2006-11-01 21:51:25 · answer #11 · answered by biggest_ncis_fan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋