hi ...
I'm a cheerleader and well theres this girl(who's name shall remain anonymous)who is really mean bitchy and has a BIG attitude...she dislikes all the new cheerleaders and shes one of them she loves to suck up to all the old ones and i can't stand her i don't want to b**** her out or beat her a.s.s but i cant stand her at all!!!!!!!!!!! she made me feel so bad today i coudnt control my anger...now i hate going to practice..but i love cheering.if i do something to her or b**** her out i will problably get kicked out :-(
please help im considering quiting but
1:i love to cheer
2:i paid to much money for my outfits to quit now! :-(
talking to her dosent help she will just turn everyone against me :-( I HATE HER SKINNY A.S.S
2006-11-01 12:56:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I HAVE BEEN NOTHING BUT NICE TO HER! SHES TWO FACED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
example:the first time i met her she asked me for my hair clip..
i gave it to her and she thrwe it at me when she didnt need it she didnt even say thank you(thats the last time i ever leant her something)
help i cant stand her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
everytime i see her i wanna beat the **** out of her its the was she acts and how nice she is to certain people(main cheerleaders) and how mean she is to other people......
2006-11-01 13:06:20 · update #1
the coaches are mean too and the captin could care less...they are all in their own little world she acts really nice to them so they will back her up.
2006-11-01 13:09:11 · update #2
I FELL LIKE STICKING HER! SO BADLY SHES SUCH A FAKE TWO FACED BYOTCH
2006-11-01 13:10:39 · update #3
okay hun, dont quit. i made that mistake way too many times. if your feelings are truley this intense maybe you should consider talking with this individual to understand why she isnt being so nice to her. No one should put down their team members, or any one for that fact. if you confront her and she is still mean to you, you should consider talking to one of the captains, if that doesnt work talk to your coach. but before you talk to some one else about this girl, you need to ask her politely what you may be doing wrong, even though you probably arnt (dont say that) ask her if you can work things out, or maybe this girl was just having a really bad day, you never know. she is human, after all. Believe me, i had the same problem last year when i joined cheerleading.....except i never confronted the person. i missed practice one day and she was one of the captains. she told me that i was off the team because i had missed practice. So i went to the next football game with my family and the coach yelled at me for not being dressed and i got lectured on how i made them a half hour late because they had to wait for me....i told the coach my story, who showed absolutely no sympathy, and she said that i was off the team. confront her about your feelings and good shall come....its called karma sweety, so be nice to her. follow the golden rule.
2006-11-01 13:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Whats your problem? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really luv cheerleading then dont quit just cuz theres some girl that has a bad attitude! If ur a good cheerleader & its what u luv to do then u shouldnt feel like u have to leave cheerleading for her.Id just ignore her.I got some girls in my grade like her.Theyre SO annoying & sometimes its hard to control my anger but I just hold it in & let them know that theyre not bothering me.If she gets to the point where she has to say something disrespectful to u everytime u come around just tell her that u dont wanna have this conversation w/ her & walk off.Just ignore her & act like shes not even there.Girls like that waist valuable time.Good luck!
2006-11-01 13:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the coach and then instead of bitching her out (cuz that NEVER works) go up to her and speak calmly to her and tell her how you feel and how she makes you feel. don't acuse her of things or threaten her. if she starts to act like a crazy person, she'll be the one to look foolish and do it in from of the coach. then remind her that what goes around comes around. but don't let her step on you.
i used to be a cheerleader and all the girls were rich and stuck up and i wasn't so i quit. i went down a different path and i have seen a lot of the cheerleaders i knew in H.S now that i've been graduated and you know where they work.... at the McDonald's down the street from my H.S and that's where they've worked since H.S.... point is people who act that way are foolish and usually end up unhappy in the future. just keep being nice and just act like and adult when talking to her. hope this helps good luck...P.S girls are cruel
2006-11-01 13:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by AnneeMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will bother her more than you being nice to her. Smile and say Hi, don't talk about her behind her back or even let her know she's bothering you. The best revenge is living well - always remember that. She'll be baffled by your friendliness, and may even stop annoying you.
2006-11-01 13:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 05:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheerleading is a sport that takes a lot of work. Don't let her slow you down. Prove your worth on the field. If she doesn't respect you, make her earn your respect. Be the best cheerleader out there.
2006-11-01 13:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by dww32720 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NUMBER 1 DONT GIVE THAT ***** THE TIME OF DAY. I WOULD BE NICE TO HER AND TREAT HER WITH RESPECT. BECUSE SEE WHAT SHE WANTS YOU TO DO IS GET MAD AND ALL UPSET AND QUIT SO SHE CAN SAY "YES I WON, I MADE HER MAD. BUT LET ME TELL YOU ONE THING YOUR NOT GOING TO QUIT BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A QUITER. IF SHE SAYS THINGS TO YOU COME BACK WITH UR LITTLE COMMENTS BUT IT GETS OUT OF HAND LET THE CAPTAIN KNOW. MAKE SURE YOU PLAY YOUR PART RIGHT SO THAT WHEN IT COME DOWN TO IT YOU WONT BE IN THE WRONG. I HAD THISSAME PROBLEM. EVERYTHING WILL TURN OUT PERFECT BUT PROMISE YOURSELF YOU WONT QUIT BECAUSE THATS EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS YOU TO DO AND YOU CAN NOT I REPEAT YOU CAN NOT LET HER WINNNNNNNNNN!.
YOU HAVE TO WIN
2006-11-01 13:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really doe...don't worry about her. Pay no attention to her. If she ain't tha captain, she ain't nothin'! Don't worry about a thing she does, but if she provokes ya, then you do what you feel is right. Don't let her get in the way of persuing your dreams. Good Luck & God Bless!
Also to get on her nerves: Be nice to her!
2006-11-01 13:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant beat her *** so why dont cuss her out on your momma jokes i got you this for you to say this to her yo momma so fat and stupid that when she saw the school bus she said wait up twinkie wait up that was funny shes really mean and bitchy yea so anyways if shes like that cuss her out
2006-11-01 13:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't quit she's just trying to intimidate you. Don't let her provoke you either. Kill her with kindness.
2006-11-01 13:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋