Men will appear sweet at first and then they turn sour and sometimes downright evil. My family made reservations at a really nice restaraunt and this was to be the first time they would meet my boyfriend after dating for almost 6 months. We were supposed to meet him at the restaraunt after his work. My family and I went to the restaraunt and were waiting and waiting. I called his cell phone many times and no answer, I left many messages concerned if he was ok. He never showed up that night and I was really scared that something may of happened. The next day he said he didn't want to see me and was saying so many cruel things. I feel really sick about this.
2006-11-01 12:40:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Consider this a blessing in disgues Dating men is somewhat like going to the library and getting books to read. Some books will have a great cover with absolutely no story at all. Some books will have a weak title and you will find a great story. Somebook may have a poorly designed cover that confuses you as to its merit but when you read it it willchange your life forever. Moral---- YOU CAN'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER and you can"t judge men until they truly reveal themselves to you like the guy who stood you up. Life goes on---lessons learned. Be thankful you are not the type of gal who would keep dating the guy because-----THIS IS THE TYPE OF GUY SHE DESERVES. What really must have hurt the worst was your misjudging this guy for six months. It will all come together when you read enough books and date enough men. The right book and the right man will---CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER AND EVER---and with Gods guidance you will live happily ever after. Good luck.
2006-11-01 13:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's weird, especially after six months. Sounds like you're really attracted to insecure guys who crave constant approval from the opposite sex. Whenever that could become questionable, they'll avoid it.
You need to think about where you're meeting these guys. It would sound like you're only meeting them at clubs and bars, leaving "having fun/escapism" as the main thing you have in common. So when things get serious, you can expect some sort of escape act.
Try meeting guys while enjoying your hobbies, whatever they may be. It makes a difference.
2006-11-01 20:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, I hope it is your last bad experience with a man, but don't count on it. Mature men are a little bit better but not a lot. Men are just not like us, they just aren't. All you can do is just move on. There will be lots of men in your life, one or two will be special. After a while, you will get the picture earlier and can tell him to get lost. This experience will help you in the future.
2006-11-01 20:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I am truly sorry about how your (ex?) boyfriend behaved. There is no way I would keep anybody waiting even if it was my worst enemy. As for choosing the right men, you need to be very careful. You could ask your girl friends that have good boyfriends/husbands how they succeded and what to look for in men.
2006-11-01 20:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Krishna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he freaked out about meeting the parents. maybe he's not as serious about the relationship and wants more time. if men or anyone for that matter feels like they are backed into a corner, anything can happen. including mean comments and not showing up for dinner.
chat with him and see where's he at with your relationship. maybe he wants out or a slower pace. also, if there was any negative stories about your family that you had told him (like "my parents hate everyone i date" or something like that) he might have freaked based on that too.
2006-11-01 21:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by cy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all men are jerks... u need to be alittle more picky one the men u chose...dont fall for the first one that pays u attention. and #1 get to know them as a friend and if possible try to find out alittle backround about them and get to know his friends the way his friends r tells u alot about him. and also see if he wants u to meet his family b 4 u have him meet urs that will show u if he wants it to last and ur important enough to meet his family...
2006-11-01 20:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If men use and hurt you, sad to say, but it's your fault. If he wasn't showing up with your family, the last thing I would do is call him four times to see where he is. Buy"The Rules" and this will never happen to you again. Hang in there!
2006-11-01 20:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by rulesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that just sucks and some men are dogs. Did he explain why he didn't come and what did he say to you? I would think if there were problems he would have brought them up prior to meeting your family. Forget about him, he's a jerk, move on.
2006-11-01 20:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you chose losers and you let them treat you badly, so they will keep doing it. Have some respect for yourself and chose wiser the type of people you chose to associate with.
2006-11-01 20:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by nassbabe2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he freaked out and is being mean to cover feeling stupid. Get rid of him. You don't need people saying mean things to you.
2006-11-01 20:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋