I can't figure out why guys keep turning me down!?

Question

I try to act myself I don't flirt to much I am dirtyblond with blue eyes I am skinny what more do I have to do?

Answer 1

Here's and idea, try just being normal instead of a high maintenance whiney butt! Just the way you worded this question would turn me off. You sound almost desperate.

You say you are a "dirty blond with blue eyes" and you are "skinny." For me, it's more about how a girl acts than about any one particular physical attribute. A girl who knows what she wants and how to get it can be especially alluring. By this I mean that you girls have a these special little ways of letting us guys know you are interested, without coming on like some cheap whore! It's the little things you do that drive us crazy, things like moving in close enough to let us smell your perfume, flashing a bright smile, giving a coy little laugh, a glancing bit of eye contact, a gentle touch of your hand (especially on the upper arm, chest or abs) these are all things that send the right signals that you are interested in a guy. When a girl has the self confidence to give the right signals without coming on like a tramp, that is very sexy and alluring.

So, forget about your physical appearance and develop some self confidence. I'm sure you will be pleased with the results.

Answer 2

Wow, that's pretty superficial of you. So what you have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes and you are skinny, that means you automatically get a guy? Maybe you need to get over yourself first and try to focus on what is wrong with you inside and work on that. What you have to do is have a personality and offer something that a guy finds attractive.

Answer 3

NO DO NOT initiate a conversation with boys. Don't flirt at all, don't act like you notice they are there, let them ask you out always! It's better to be alone than to feel the rejection of a man. Treat the boy you like as if he's the one you don't like.

Answer 4

I don't know your age but just continue to be yourself. If you are the quiet type, I recommend being a little more outgoing, show your pesonality, guys like that.... start a conversation, show people you are interested in the same things they are, and definitely smile a lot. You are you and be proud of that, don't change your ways for anyone......... good luck

Answer 5

your no longer the one person who isnt into the relationship scene. Im 14 too, im no longer that beautiful both. But men have preferred me, however due to the fact im relatively choosy ive handiest relatively preferred two men i suppose. I wager i kinda dated (no longer definite) however after that ive made up our minds no longer up to now any individual. Cuz its relatively dull finally it is going to on no account figure out and is a waste of time. Yes it ordinary your simply alot extra mature, i feel its a pleasant selection. Plus its gonna be method to distracting to your existence.

Answer 6

Don't worry...just be you...there's someone for everyone, and don't worry about them. Do what you feel, and don't overreact if a guy finally gets w/you, even then, just relax and be cool! But really, don't worry about it, and keep being you and don't change for no one, and someone could possibly be the perfect match for you. Good Luck & God Bless!

Answer 7

if you act yourself and they dont give you any attention, its probably not the right guy anyways

Answer 8

there are millions of turnoffs for us... find the right one and improve it... idk maybe ur too skinny... u never smile? you're too shy? too outgoing? but whatever you do dont try to change who you are :/

Answer 9

Maybe it's your approach.