What would be the appropriate time to wait before saying "I love you" to my boyfriend?
2006-11-01 12:39:05 · 13 answers · asked by Ciavana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when u r sure he feels the same way about you
2006-11-01 12:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until it feels 100% right. There is no certain timeline that you have to follow. Of course you shouldnt spring it on him after like two weeks and it depends on the type of relationship yall have. If the two of you are really close and have a special bond then a month or two would be fine but there is nothing wrong with waiting six seven or eight months if you really want to. You should never feel pressured to say it. Trust me when you are ready you will know. You can just feel it.
2006-11-01 20:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by georgiabelle87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait at least a couple of months after you have the boyfriend/girlfriend talk. Then only do it while he's on top of you really enjoying your company. You're very likely to get the response you want, and he can't take it back. You can pretend like it just slipped out. Don't say it after the deed, though. He's tired and wants to sleep.
2006-11-01 20:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are alll looking for time lines, when to get married, when to go to college, when to move in with a boyfriend, etc. We as a society are way too hung up on these issues. My advice, do what makes you feel comfortable. If you love him with all your heart and soul, tell him. No one else can say if it is right or wrong but you.
2006-11-01 20:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no certain time.
When you feel as though you truly love this person (and you'll just know and feel it) then you say it.
If he says it back then awesome, but if he doesn't say it back don't take it too harshly he could just not be ready yet, doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
2006-11-01 20:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set time. It really depends on your feelings! Be honest; dont just say it 2 make him happy! And not to early; you dont wanna freak him out!
hope that helps!
2006-11-01 20:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by totalbabe ;-x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him you love him when you feel you do and when you feel comfortable telling him. Remember don't say it to him just because he said it to you first say it when you truly feel it and when you feel the time is right. Good luck!
2006-11-01 20:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set time. You will know when the time is right. You will feel it.......it is a wonderful warm feeling you don't want to leave you............the words will come naturally.... enjoy every minute.
2006-11-01 20:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait until he says it first. I think most guys get a little weird when a girl says it first. You don't want him to give you a silent pause and then say oh... thanks.
2006-11-01 20:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Estrella Negra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he just finished watching his favorite sports team win the a world championsip. right afterwards, throw it @ him and he'll be receptive, throwing it back to u. flawless
2006-11-01 20:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋