We went out several times and we don't define our relationship. He would call when he wants to go out at least once every 2 weeks and we always end up in bed. He would stare at me during intercourse and afterwards while he sleeps he wants me close and near and don't want to turn his back against me. I don't know if he is serious or if he will pursue the relationship.He admitted recently that he is committed now to someone else and they are getting married next year.The last time he said that he is now in doubt to pursue the marriage plan with her and he laid down the cards.He tells me more about him,and he asks more and more questions about me.Where do i fall? Where do I stand?It should be more than just a fling but still not a serious relationship and i am now taking my distance from him,am i making the right moves?He would tease me about being fat but kiss me torridly.We had intimate moments but he don't call often.Help..
2006-11-01 12:28:10 · 5 answers · asked by Sherry A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter what he is trying to do. What matters is what you want and what you are willing to deal with. Anything that brings you pain and causes confusion is not worth the battle. Do you and if he really wants you he'll make it known. Don't forget actions speak louder than words.
2006-11-01 12:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by angel in the er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you had sex with him too soon. Most young woman dont understand that you should make him wait. If he likes you for you then he will wait. If he only wants sex then he will leave and pursue the next girl in line.
2006-11-01 13:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be confused. Relationship is really hard for any men. Also It is really hard for a woman if you she fells in love in love with someone. He migh be in a process of 'selecting' the right one. Be patient , go with flow if you can. If you can't, give him and yourself a little 'distance'.
Everyting depends on your strong mind to control the situation.
2006-11-01 12:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by BB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are the fling... time to run, hun.
2006-11-01 12:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him -- he is using you for sex only -- there will never be anything more
2006-11-01 12:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋