should i ran away from home?

Question

my mom and dad every day they agrue with me for no reason its like i feel so down and i feel like im worth nothing.they dont care about me or my feelings i just feel like im nothing sometimes i hate them and myself for them yelling at me. my daddy really dont want to be with my mom the only reason he dont want to leave is because he dont want to pay child support he told me that so he dont care about me. if i tell them my leg or and it really does thay dont care they still tell me do this do that do everything they never tske me to the hospital if something is really wrong with me its like they dont want me here so should i ran away or what?

Answer 1

Sweetheart, the problems of your parents are exactly that-their problems. You are not a cause of it. I know that you feel like they don't care about you but they choose to have you, I am sorry they yell at you. Try talking to your school counselor or your pastor. You are not to blame. But sweetie, if you run away you don't make the situation any better for anyone. Life on the streets isn't pretty, you will get hurt! Please stay home and talk to someone first and if nothing changes there are other alternatives. Please don't do it. Someone does care!!

Answer 2

How old are you? It doesn't sound you are in such a great position. Keep this in mind. The fact that your parents fight and are the way they are IS NOT YOUR FAULT. I'll write it again, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. You really need to consider your options here. If you do run away, think about what life would be like. Where are you going? What are you going to do? How will you support yourself? What kind of people will you be surrounded by? These are important things to consider. I wouldn't recommend running away, because you'll only be running from your problems. Seek out a teacher or counselor at school. I know this sounds stupid, but you should do this. You would be suprised what this may do for you. They will offer you help if you tell them your situation. This is a critical time in your life. Whatever you choose to do, know this. Education is the only way to a better life. It doesn't seem like it now, but with an education you can choose what you want to do. I implore you to seek out a teacher or counselor at school before you do anything drastic. If you want to chat on IM, shoot me a message.

Answer 3

HI,
If u can support yourself , then u need not even run away you can just walk out. But ask yourself can you support yourself? If nope, wait till you can stand on your own feet .
I am telling u this based on my experience. But i manage to somehow stand up and now my parents are looking up at me.
I understand that you feel stress, well dont confuse up your mind , try to take this as a challenge. Maybe they need you maybe you dad n mom are having a bad time. If you consider they dont love you u wouldn't be grown up till like this. I guess u have heard some parent thrown their 2 days old baby in rubbish bin n stuff like that.
Don't wait for ppl to care about you , u take care of yourself. Study hard have a good view of ur career and studies. Maybe if your college have hostels or something you can speak to your lecturer about your problem. I am sure she will find a way. Well either you can seek your relatives, maybe there is someone out they whom are helpful. It might be better if stay with your aunty . Or maybe bring down ur aunty to talk to them.

Answer 4

Running away from home. What will you do next? I advise you to tell a close friend, adult, or close relatives. Someone out there must care, and it would be a shame if you lock yourself in a unloving enviroment. Everyone wants and need to be love. Don't be down of the ignorance your parents show (no offense) You are better than that, and I know for sure. Because Noone here is as low as the floor we walk on, we are somebody, someone. Keep your head up, tell someone close, and keep on thinking about your future.
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Hope the best for you always and keep you in prayers.

Answer 5

I don't think they are actually mad at you. You said he doesn't
really want to be with your mom and he told you that he doesn't care for you. I know that has to hurt, but running away is not
going to solve any problems between you and your parents.
It'll only make thing worse, they will really blame you for what is
going on with their problems. I think it will be better off for you and
your mom to be on your own. This way a **** load of arguments
will end. What you need to do is stay out of their way if possible.
When you come home from school eat, do your homework,
do your chores and stay in your room for the rest of the night.
When it's time for dinner, just say your not hungry at the moment
and that you'll eat later. If you stay away from both of them, then
who are they going to yell at, each other. They will finally get
tired of it and leave one another. Some times parents argue
and they do this because they don't like each other and whom is the one that they take out on is the kids, why because like
you said he doesn't want to pay child support, but to bad for him
he will have no choice. So try to stick it out, I know your hurting
but the safest place is in your room, unless you have a family
member that will take you in. But don't run away to a strangers
house or a friends house because that will only be temporarily
So think about it very hard okay, If you were my daughter then
I would pick you over your dad any time. I for one I'm a single
parent and If my daughter ever wanted to run away because
we were fighting I would prefer her to go to a relative. My
eldest daughter then 3 (now 22) told her dad to move out,
she knew he wasn't there for her and I agreed so We had him pack his clothes and move out, since then she is happy
without him.

Answer 6

Tell a trusted adult, they can help. Don't run away. Sit them down and talk. Eat as a family. Save money and surprise them with a vaction. Go to Church (if ur catholic/Christian), take a walk through the park, throw them an anniversey party! Do whatever it takes to get them to stop fighting and then if they don't then try talking again and if they stop then let them build their relashonship up again and if it still doesn't work tell a coach, teahcer, relative or grandparent. They can help...and will! Don't run away unless you have a place to live, money and a job. Besides how old are you? Talk to your dad and then talk to your mom both privatley and tell them how you feel and how you wish you were a "normal" family. Tell them you thought about running away. Do all these things and if they don't work e-mail me ([e-mail]) and we talk some more. But go down this list:
1. Talk to Them.
2. Do something special...as a family.
3. Sit them down both privatley (not together) and chat some.
4. Tell a trusted adult.
5. E-mail me!
6. Then run away (but avoid this as much as you can!)
Hope this works and don't forget to e-mail about how it's going. I hope this works! E-MAIL ME! Good luck!

Answer 7

well, you gotta think realistically...if you run away, where will you go? what will you do for money and food? How would you have shelter? I would try to get some family counseling, or at least some personal counseling-professionally. I don't think running away would be the best idea, b/c if you think your miserable now, how much more miserable do you think you'd be if you were out in the streets, cold and alone, hungry and naked? I tried "running away" to live with my uncle, and his a)ss didn't even have cable, or food, or heat or water! I realized that even though things at home weren't perfect, they were a lot better than living with him!
Don't run away, unless you've got someplace safe and healthy and supportive to go, and your absolutely positive your parents do not care about you and aren't willing to change. Best wishes

Answer 8

Things you are going to want: A adequate sum of money, meals, apparel, water, flashlight (With additional batteries), Lighter or fits, Blanket, Pocket knife, deoderant, toothbrush,toothpaste,rest room paper, Some style of amusement. Also, feel approximately what you are doing. I recognize you do not wish anybody telling you not to run away, I'm honestly simplest in this seeing that I'm going to run away, however feel approximately it. You're father and mother are going to feel you're useless, and once they discover out you are alive, they will be completely satisfied, after which get for your *** approximately it perpetually. Going for a laugh is not valued at your father and mother,peers and loved ones grieving over the reality you (of their head) are useless or had been abducted and raped. Don't carry your telephone, and make certain you could have adecent position to stick so one can safeguard you from climate.

Answer 9

You should not run away from home or you will be charged by law enforcement with runaway and be taken to a juvenile detention center, then have to go to court and be put on probation and have to pay fines or perform community service. You should talk to a school counselor, teacher, principal, friend, or anyone else that you can trust. Don't run away, because that is no life. Take it from me, as I work for social services for state government.

Answer 10

Talk to your grandparents, Auntie, or Uncle someone close to your Mom and Dad. Let them know your family problem and how u feel. Maybe, they can help your parents need to think about you more. Take care.