Okay, I've always had issues with my self-esteem, mostly due to my apperance. When I wake up, I get ready, put make-up on, and do my hair. I feel like I look good. I feel good. I'm happy when I first look in the mirror in the morning. My friends tell me I have a great personality. When I get to school, stupid 8th grade boys, don't notice anything. I talk to them, but the most I've got out of them is my friend saying "I like your hair color, it's like an aubrun."
Why don't they notice me?
2006-11-01 12:16:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
younger guys are immature.
wait until when you're a little bit older. then boys will realize how great you are, and will wonder why you aren't taken and wisked away by someone else.
I always thought I was pretty and cute, and I have an amazing personality, and everything. But the guys in middle school or high school never got that. At all. One of my closest friends (is a guy) asks all the time, why I don't have an engagement ring on my finger, any guy would be insane not to notice this amazing woman.
You don't need anyone immature. You need the right man who will take the time and notice. He's the one you want.
2006-11-01 12:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't compare your interactions with those of other people who clearly look, act, and are somehow different from you. What you should do is relax and continue being as satisfied as you were in the morning. Don't get your feelings hurt, it's probably nothing personal, and if it is something personal, it's probably a blessing some of those boys aren't paying attention, as some would want to do things they evidently don't think a sweet girl like you should do. Okay?
You must be respected, I take it.
Just keep being friendly and kind and things will start looking up eventually. Make sure you don't have rude friends.
2006-11-01 12:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loil k ur in gr 8 and ur expecting way too much from guys
Guys dont notice things. THey dont notice little things. Like if ur putting on make up to be noticed by "stupid 8th grade boys" i think u hav a problem!
As soon as u stop worrying about boys one will come to u . I experienced the same thing
2006-11-01 12:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most 8th grade guys will be scared of you if you are pretty, confident and happy. I don't think the tide really turns for girls and guys until college, or late high school. Give it time. Be happy. Grow yourself. Get good grades. Be your best self, and you'll be ready when you meet the one who appreciates you.
2006-11-01 12:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they don't think your as hot as you think you are, or they are too intimidated to approach you or say anything. But chances are, they probably just aren't attracted to you. Not to say that your ugly, but nowadays it seems like the uglier a person is, the more publicity and praise they get. Just look at "Flavor of Love" women are actually banging over that guy and he looks like a beetle! The same thing happens to me. I will get all prettied up (or at least I think I look cute), and then guys won't notice me. Another reason why, is because most people don't like conceited mates, or people who have big heads
about themselves. I don't know, just some ideas......
2006-11-01 12:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the 8th grade! Most boy's don't grow up enough till middle of the freshman year. Some never grow up, like me. Don't worry about it and don't try too hard.
It sounds like you are doing what you need to. Chances are you are more grown up mentally than the boys are. Oh, and the fact you call them boys tells me you are worrying too early.
2006-11-01 12:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long do you spend doing make ups? May be you can work on other areas that you might be neglecting.
What does your non friends think about you? You probably have a great personality, but your friends are not the best source of unbiased opinion.
2006-11-01 12:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jason D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you are in 8th grade. Guys don't really start to date girls until high school. Or at least that is how it was when I was in middle school. Second, you may be trying too hard. Just be yourself. If you are throwing yourself at these guys, you are going to make them uncomfortable. At that age, they don't know what to do. Again..that was when I was in middle school. Just be yourself and trust me, someone will end up liking you!
2006-11-01 12:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most 8th grade boys don't see girls as attractive right away. They still want to play basketball. (Besides) Maybe a 9th grade boy is looking at your from afar. Keep doing what your doing,when it comes to your appearance. As long as you know your "lookin good",then somebody else thinks so too! (You'll see).
2006-11-01 12:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they might notice you and not say anything, i really dont get this, i mean do you like want them to say omg your so pretty likke every second, or is it cause they say it to yuor other friends?? if so it may be your apperance, i know thats kinda mean but i mean ya, or it could just be the guy
2006-11-01 12:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by livers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋